JaniceJuly 19, 2023 at 7:58 PM You've been having a very tough time lately Archerfile. I hope that when things go wrong with the house that it is Mr A. who does all the phoning up and sorting out. If you leave him to organise these things it might encourage him to think seriously about moving.
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SarniaJuly 19, 2023 at 8:11 PM Mr S didn't believe in university - thought it was a waste of time. I had longed to go all my life, and at 62, with a little help from my daughter-in-law, I enrolled first and told him afterwards. I knew he wouldn't argue with the Head of Programme, because he would never stand up to another man in authority.
MiriamJuly 20, 2023 at 5:09 PM Archerphile. You are a true fighter, and I so admire you for this. Now - how to get Mr AP to realise that a move is best for you? This must be so difficult to even consider. I am sure that in your heart you do not want to leave your cottage. My Little Sis is just doing similar now. They are leaving their Norfolk barn conversion, downsizing, and moving to be near to her grandkids and daughters. It's all very complicated, but they are going into a rental property so to keep their buyers happy.. She doesn't mind this as knows that her new life, is now only a few months away. This is the sister with an incurable liver problem (an auto immune one) which is under total control. She just feels that she now wants to be much nearer her family and grandsons, as is finally a pensioner (66yrs last January). She has got her prorities so right.
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ArcherphileJuly 20, 2023 at 9:40 PM She certainly has Miriam and I wish her well and all the best for the future
OldWomanInAShoeJuly 21, 2023 at 9:24 AM My third starter word was the Wordle today : ) The other day, two of my three came up in Duotrigordle.
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SpicycushionJuly 21, 2023 at 10:32 AM Son coming over for ten days on 'home leave' with whole family. I haven't seen daughter in law since before Covid so I am excited ! Now I must find health insurance as I never had then in Germany, as son and family will take me back for a fortnight ! Now there is so much to do but am lying on the sofa listening to cricket ! Have ordered portable fan, two new pyjamas, underclothes, sun hat and loads of present for dil's mother is also visiting, as well as her brother, wife and 4 year old daughter ! Thank goodness we're going on Eurotunnel !
Lady RJuly 21, 2023 at 11:42 AM Good grief Spicy what wonderful news but busy busy times ahead - well once you get off the sofa that is 🤣🏏 if you ever get time will look forward to hearing how all visits go.
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Cheshire CheeseJuly 21, 2023 at 12:45 PM I hope that all goes well with your forthcoming precious family time Spicycushion.
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AmbridgesMrsPJuly 21, 2023 at 12:58 PM After all your horrific health issues Spicycushion you certainly deserve all the love you will receive from your extended family members. And I hope John/Jon gets all the admiration he deserves for looking after you during your most challenging times.
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ArcherphileJuly 21, 2023 at 1:04 PM Have a wonderful visit Spicy, you deserve it, as does Jon. What a lovely burst of sunlight for you at the end of a long tunnel. Enjoy!
On another subject……I downloaded scrabble onto my phone this lunchtime. I have not moved off the sofa since!! Definitely taken my mind off any jobs that I can’t be doing. Next 6 weeks will fly by. Lol. AND I got a 7 letter word to start with on one game, standee, that capped the ruddy computer/internet whatever opponent!
Not a good time for me at the moment. I’m OK but all around me is chaos
The carpenter, with whom I have been endlessly patient with his unreliability, considerate of his personal and family problems as a single parent, and his endless promises to turn up and then not doing so, has finally returned my doors to Howdens who will kindly store them ( purchased and paid by me of course) until I can find another trader. Another single father who I have befriended over the last year - he helps me and I support him by providing a listening ear - has now been homeless for six weeks. He has moved from basic and cheap hotel to holiday caravan from week to week. Local authorities will not house him and daughter because they do not recognise 11 year old dog Mischa as family. His ex has plastered social media with lies about him and finally last evening he was assaulted in public by thugs who recognised him from social media posts. I have now spent an hour and a half waiting for another tradesman to turn up for an appointment with, yet again, a no show.
Good news is that Lady has now allowed two separate dogs to be in her garden sharing space - both dogs supervised and leashed - and has twice been tolerated in the caravan with Mischa. This is huge progress with her socialisation.
I’m not complaining, just off loading a bit ! Hope that’s OK.
MrsP feel free to off load any time. It’s good to hear how Lady is continuing to develop, she is very lucky to have found you. It is sometimes quite draining when people you are in contact with are having a hard time, even if you aren’t affected per se.
Poor Mrs P. What a trial of your considerable gift of patience. Spicey, it all sounds exciting but exhausting. I seem to be busy growing into a new identity. Won't be sharing.
Just heard from another nephew today: sister-in-law has published brother's funeral details in today's paper. It's on 25th, IE, in 3 days' time! Mad scramble to find flights and accommodation for self and son, as we'll have to fly out on Monday night. Forgive my suspicious nature, but how on earth do you get a crem. slot at such short notice? I wonder if my turning up will be unexpected?
What does it matter as to others as you + son, want to be there. I bet you will be welcomed with open arms at this sad time. Hold your head up high and embrace all.
And if it is unexpected and they don’t know how to greet you, just smile your way through. If you are ignored by those present, just remember it is your brother you are there for, not them. And you will after all have your son by your side. The best of luck Sarnia.
I plan to keep my head down and my mouth shut - unless spoken to, of course. This is the sister-in-law who thinks I only play the organ and write poetry to show off. Doesn't everyone?🤔
“If you’ve got it flaunt it” Sarnia 🤗 sounds as if your Sister-in-law deep inside has low self esteem therefore digging at you and keeping your brother away from you as she did gives/ gave her some sort of power to compensate.
Show them wrong Sarnia!. As said - Head up High and just show what a great person you truly are!! Go for it - to then enjoy the reaction! You can do it 🌟
The Cricket - What a shame that the weather is playing such a prominent part, in what should have been a brilliant match. Am I biased - Of course I am 🏏 🏴
The weather forecast doesn't look very promising for the cricket or here, about 20 miles away. I was hoping to do some gardening instead I'll be researching new Samsung tablets instead. I dropped mine on the floor in the conservatory. It didn't look damaged but as I was using it a band of blue appeared on the right of the screen and is gradually spreading across so it's damaged internally. It was an old one but still in good working order, I'm really annoyed with myself.
It might be worth looking on a site like Music Magpie or CEX both of which sell refurbished tech, they’ll have a 12 month warranty & you can make significant savings, especially if you’re not hung up on having the latest model
Is it still usable right now CC what data do you keep on it ie contacts etc that you may need to save to transfer to new tablet. Not that I truly understand these things. Last Monday I had to visit Apple Store Basingstoke to have a new iPhone battery fitted having contacted Apple first to have done over the airwaves what needed to be done prior to appointment 🧐 IPad is in same situation but has to be sent back to replace battery. Phone was just a back up to iCloud which happens automatically most of the time anyway but has to be manually done for this procedure and check if any new iOS data had to be loaded. Because iPad has to go away as well as back up to iCloud I will have to erase the pad as if selling or passing it on to another user then download my data from iCloud on its return. Well that’s the theory 😃😂😃 I have had both products - always in use for 5 yrs cone September so can’t complain. Still had iPad 2 somewhere with some photo albums on…..
Hopefully I'll be able to transfer to the new one over WiFi as I did with my phone. If not it's all backed up which would be more awkward but can be done.
I have just replaced my laptop - the old one was starting to randomly produce the blue screen of death, followed by claims that it had no hard drive. Generally it sulks for a bit and then turns back pretending nothing had ever been wrong. But I need the thing to work and I can't risk it dying completely, nor can I spare it to send it off for repair. So, off to Curry's I went. Next day delivery was hampered by a DPD agent who can't tell the difference between a church and a vicarage. The second driver tried the same trick, despite photos of the fron door and clear instructions on the app. Fortunately I was watching out for him. All was well, I plugged the new laptop in and switched on the power. POP! And a smell of burning. Not a good response from a brand new computer ... The offending machine went back to Curry's and a replacement was ordered. So now I have a shiny new laptop that doesn't take 3 hours to load a web page and, hopefully, won't keep crashing itself or Zoom. It runs Windows 11 too, although, to be honest, I've yet to work out how it differs from Windows 10.
I hope your new tablet behaves itself CC and doesn't go snap, crackle, or pop!
Thrilled today - I finally have flowers on my runner bean plants! These have been a long time coming, esp. as a neighbour across the road who planted his just two weeks earlier, has already picked and is eating beans! I have today accepted a quote for some new fences to go alongside my driveway, plus new side gate and panel, to be brought about 3ft forwards. I don't use the drive down the side of the house, so it is better to have this land for a different usage. As per usual for me, I will be spending more than I intended, but frankly not that concerned. I will be getting exactly what I want! I did have a cheaper quote, but the difference as to the quality and final look, was so very different. A long wait though - probably late September.
I know CC had a great time at the RHS Tatton Flower Show. I always know when it happens, as I have a fantastic Lily which flowers at the same time. This is not surprising though, as I bought the corms many years ago at the same show, and are now gorgeous as are in full bloom.
So Australia retains The Ashes as to the draw. To my mind it is by default due to our so-called British summer weather. No doubt that this has happened before...and will hsppen again..
How wierd, as I also listened to exactly the same broadcast this morning whilst blitzing my bedroom (and it so needed it). I found it fascinating and would also recommend.
We have just had the enormous privilege of being able to watch our granddaughter Rosie’s Graduation Ceremony on a live link from Warwick University. It was brilliant reception and, unlike, funeral links, the camera was able to change angles, zoom in on faces, show the processions in full and also focus in on the audience. It was just as good as being there. Better in fact! So Rosie got a BA, first class with Hons and will be staying on next year to do a PGCE in English, which attracts a bursary as it’s a subject with a shortage of teachers. We are a very proud Grandma and Grandpa this afternoon, especially as her older brother Max never had a ceremony due to Covid
In very smart room in my nephew's hotel, listening to the wind on the sea. First time I've been back since Mr S died. My son's head is reeling from all the names on my side of the family that he never knew. Funeral tomorrow at 12 noon.
I hope today isn’t too difficult Sarnia. Maybe you & your son will be able to connect with some of your other family members ,if that is what you want.
Finally got a massive load of washing out onto the line today. I put the wash machine on the timer last night, so was pegging it all out at 7.30am, still half asleep + in dressing gown + slippers. It was luckily dry by the time the rain started mid-afternoon. That's the best I can do re news at the moment..😔
New tablet now up and running. I was very lucky and managed to move everything over from my old one in spite of two thirds of the screen being g black. I was also able to do a factory reset on the old one, phew! Now just got a lot of signing in to do and get used to the new one, might take a while. Met an old school friend at Dunham Massey today and managed a good walk before the rain came in.
Audrey has turned into a little bugger the last 2 days. Today she got hold of Mabel’s liver tablets and ate15. Hence trip to the vets so she could be induced to vomit. Yet another vets bill!!! Mr PtbY took her and daphne up the forest, to a remote area, so she wouldn’t meet any dogs, on a long tracing lead. Hopefully by next week she’ll have finished being on heat and we can start some serious walking and training to tire her out.
I have been pretty unwell since Sunday evening. Headache, eyes sensitive to light and vomiting bile as nothing to bring up. Unable to keep down the smallest of small sips of water and needing to be prone to cope at all. Called surgery at 4 this afternoon and have just received some medication to stop vomiting. Neighbour upstairs kindly collected for me. Recently my one surviving radio stopped working and today there is no sound on Iplayer bbc sounds. I’m bereft without my beloved radio four. Nothing wrong with Iplayer sound as TV ok. Any one else getting this problem ?
Mrs P I have an iPlayer app on my iPad (and a bbc sounds app and that is working ok) The only radio I can see on iPlayer is Radio 1.. Am I right in thinking you do not have a tv because radio can be available that way too these days. Hope you get sorted and so sorry to hear you are unwell sounds a nasty bug at best. Take care 💐
I don’t have a television Lady R, your right. When I click on to sounds I am getting everything as normal except the black bars that is clicked to access the sound. Nothing wrong with the sound on the Iplayer as I was able to get the television news, which is so superficial, and for me unsatisfactory. I miss Evan on PM today and now won’t be able to hear T A either. I was also very much looking forward to hearing ‘ Reflections ‘ this morning, James Naughty with Ken Clarke.
So many technical problems recently. After all our problems with our landline phone, BT eventually disconnected all our upstairs telephone wiring which was causing the problems. This meant they moved the wifi Modem downstairs from under Mr A’s desk upstairs. Result = he can’t use his computer as it is a 14 yr old version and has to be physically plugged into the modem. Long discussions about what to replace it with led to a 2hr session in Curry’s choosing a new set up for him. Because he is used to a proper keyboard & mouse & likes to work sitting at his desk it had to be a desktop, he can’t get used to my iPad (his fingers are too big!). Couldn’t persuade him to move to Apple instead Microsoft Windows - Apple Macs were much too expensive anyway - and the shop will do all the data transfer from old to new computer. Now we’ll be on a sharp learning curve with Windows 11 instead of the ancient system we know!
Thank you CC. I spoke with the surgery desk guards yesterday who conferred with a GP who sent a prescription to Tesco and was picked up by my neighbour upstairs. Cyclizine it’s worked and the vomiting has ceased. However the headache is worse and spreading into by neck and back. I had a call from a very understanding doctor this morning who has now further prescribed Omeprazole. Thinks it is a bug/virus I’ve picked up and agreed not necessarily food related. I am of course pretty dehydrated, I did a pinch test on hand and it was pretty slow to return. I’m satisfied !
BBC Sounds on IPlayer is now functioning, but I am going to call BBC to find if it was a breakdown.
Mrs. P. Hope you start to feel better very soon, it sounds horrible. Nice to have a kind neighbour. I understand about the radio, I have 3 in the house plus the laptop and app on phone, but these days I find R3 is better when I am busy as I can't concentrate on the task in hand as well as actively listening, so save dramas etc for the bath and bedtime. I feel very sad atm, my dear dog died two weeks ago. It is the first time in 19 years that I have been dogless, still doing favourite walks but it feels a bit pointless. As I am in the final stages of decorating etc before putting my house on the market, and then all the upheaval, I won't be looking for another little waif until I am settled in a new house. Flipping life eh?
Oh Mistral, I am so sorry and know what a huge emotional state it is to loose a dog. I’ve always had cats, many, but find that the loss of a cat, tho’ sad is far less than when your dog dies. My last, twenty five years ago was the middle of three major losses - my partner walking out, and my mother dying, all three within a six month period in 1998. But the devastation was the dreadful death of my beloved Harry, PTS on the operating table having found massive stomach cancer. The vet was also very upset, having saved her from a dislocated hip after being hit by a moving car, when he was a very junior vet. This was at the Putney RSPCA hospital which many will have known from the television programme in the past. As for walking being pointless now I fully understand that and that is also a loss to your emotional and physical wellbeing. I shall look forward to your move when it happened- is it still Devon ? - and then your getting your next loving dog.
It’s timely too. I want to tell you that it was over twenty years before I got Lady, the reason being that I felt I couldn’t ever love any dog as much as H, but only a few days ago, over four years now that I’ve had L, I looked at her and realised that I love her almost as much as I loved H. It is good to know that one can have the emotional capacity to love again.
MrsP, I hope you recover soon, a nasty bug can really knock you out. Be Engle on yourself just doin what makes you feel bette. It’s good to hear that you have a kindly neighbour in case of emergency. Mistral, I hope all the decorating, house sale etc ones smoothly and you are, in time, able to find a new canine companion.
I am the arch-typical single female "Aunty", who lives alone with her cat! In my experience, losing a cat is also very traumatic. When my wonderful 17yr old cat met her sad demise last year, I lost my companion and house-share living being. Whatever pets we have, they are all equally loved and so very sadly missed, when their time comes. Little Sis is relocating in what is now 2 weeks. She is in a total quandrary as to her dog. This is a black lab. 14yrs old, has quite bad arthritis and now has a cancerous tumour in her mouth, but is still eating well. She knows that awful decision is going to have be made soon, but when? Does she move the dog to, firstly a daughters home for a few weeks before moving into a small rental, or does she do the humane thing before all the upheaval happens, and before the dog starts really suffering...I don't envy her deciding, as she just wants to do the best for her beloved dog.
With one’s head the answer is an easy one Miriam but the heart makes it so difficult 💔 Obviously it would be more humane to say goodbye before any move therefore minimising trauma for her beloved dog. I feel for her very much as the true saying says “ Grief is the price we pay for love”.
Miriam - when I moved from my home in London I went to my daughters for three months before moving to Stroud. I wasn’t able to take my 17 year old cat, owned. by me since he was 14 to my daughters so my Hammersmith friend took him for those few months then he came with me to a rental in Stroud. He was dead within the next few months. It was clear to me that he had had enough moves. It will be clear to your sister which path to take, but also very hard to walk. She has my sympathy.
Mistral. My heart goes out to you. I know how you feel and people who don’t have a dog can’t understand. It’s like losing an actual member of your family. Sensible to wait til you’ve moved before getting another. Your walls now must be very poignant. I always feel a walk is pointless without a dog. 💐😢
Thank you all. When I go for walks I take a ball or two to throw in favourite spots, she was an avid collector of other dog's toys, I have never bought a ball but there was a collection of 40 decent ones to throw away for others. It was timely, Mrs. P, and now is the time to move, she was never comfy in rented holiday airbnb's, I wasn't actively waiting for a change before moving but it has mde it easier. My d.i.l. s pet rat has just died, she is distraught. It really doesn't matter what species the pet is, PTBY is right, it is family.
I saw a wonderful f/b post recently (which popped up in my "news feed"). It was a photo' of a big bucket of tennis balls on the edge of a beach. The message with it was that dog owners should take one, and then throw it, in memory of a much loved dog who loved its time with balls on the beach. For some reason it tugged at my heart-strings.
Finally got my lawns mowed, but what a chore. Due to the constant daily rain, they were long..but still wet. Normally I empty the grass box of mower when doing the back lawn perhaps once, today it was 5 times, and blades of mower got so clogged up with wet long grass, I kept having to clear them. All Done - and look good, even if say so myself!! Still lots to do, but tomorrow is another day.
This post is specially for Spicy The photo is of youngest English grandson, Griff, leaving for the 25th World Jamboree in South Korea. Just eight years after his older brother Max went to the 23rd World Jamboree in Nagasaki. We are amazed that both boys were chosen to go, thinking another lad from the same family would not be. chosen. But he passed all the tests, raised the money and showed great enthusiasm so off he goes. Just hoping there won’t be any floods or major disasters while hundreds of Scouts from all over the world are there!
Congratulations to Griff and I hope that is a worthwhile and enjoyable experience. 50,000 Scouts will be at the Jamboree and he'll meet loads of people from UK as well as world wide Scouts ! Lucky man !!! I am joining in with a 'day's Jamboree experience' online. One of my young leaders went to Nagasaki when I was a Cub Scout Leader.
Radio listenings.. I enjoyed "Madame Will You Talk". This is an adaptation from the book by Mary Stewart, and is two 1hr episodes. I enjoyed the listen but it is slightly confusing and a bit contrived at times. Would I recommend, not sure as it depends so much on others tastes. To add, it is only available on Sounds for another week.
May I have a rant?? I am just getting the evening meal going and deciding what my Saturday TV viewing will be. There is nothing worth watching for my taste (apart from The Ashes highlights). Does anyone have the same problem, or is it just me? I don't have Sky or similar, so just get very frustrated as to the lack of something decent to watch. I will have to look at what I have recorded to find something suitable. Rant Over!!
Thank God we have sky. Just got a new telly last weekend so we can now get ITVX. On normal tv decent progs are few and far between. Then if there is something good on it usually clashes with something else. Saturday night is midsomer murders night in our house. Can’t beat it. If anyone gets ITVX we’ve just watched a six parter called “ a confession”. It was excellent. Based on a true story.
But can you get rid of the adverts? Like CC we regularly record programmes , especially those on commercial channels, and watch when we want to rather than when they are scheduled
I prefer to record then watch, as have a button on my remote to skip ads with just a couple of presses. This is done on my internet TV box so no need to pay - well just yet, that is. This still shows the old ITV hub app.icon, but when load it, it is ITVX. I am in the place - if it's not broke, then don't fix it. My set-up suits me as I record in HD. Cross today as my wi-fi (so internet), went down whilst listening to TA omnibus, but it came back on a few hours later. I only mention this as I could not find any contact 'phone nos on paper, to then try to sort. The first thing I did when it came back on, was to look up and write down several contact 'phone numbers, so have them for another time. My back-up plan was to go to a neighbour, ask to log in via their wi-fi, to find then these. Luckily I didn't need to do.
We have been watching the Congress investigation into UAPS/UFOS and the compelling evidence being given to it by high ranking witnesses/whistleblowers who are arguing for more transparency. It would seem that the Pentagon and intelligence agencies have been withholding information from Congress. Sometimes it no doubt suits governments to use the ufo interest as a cover for their latest defence/attack craft developments, ( my daughter saw one years ago, very big, totally quiet with the ability to fly very low and very slowly and it frightened her silly until common sense kicked in, and we later learned that the Americans had brought a craft to St Mawgan and were test flying it at night over this area) but the things spoken of now in Congress seem to have technological abilities beyond our present capabilities. Interesting stuff. Reverse engineering ? or do we simply have some really brilliant scientists and engineers with their work kept under wraps?
Janice - all sounds very interesting. I do have a belief that we are being ‘ watched ‘ and possibly visited, but I’m not particularly passionate about it. In the very early 80s I was in a relationship for a few months with a man Timothy Goode, who was then at the beginning of his career as an authority on the subject. He has since published a number of books on the subject.
At the time he was still the lead violinist with the LSO - so for those few months we were together I had many opportunities to hear live classical performances as well as attending rehearsals. I see from his present profile that his major interest is now his UFO writings.
You had a very interesting boyfriend Mrs P. I haven't read any of his books yet but am wondering if he had had some kind of direct experience that set him on that path. It would be nice for him if the Congress committee confirms some of the things he has been writing about. I am thinking that this investigative committee must have had some kind of clearance from the Pentagon, and if so are they deliberately drip feeding the public to get us used to the idea. Just thinking aloud here. Back in the 90's something went overhead here at a speed I had never seen before and one of our jets went screaming overhead after it but couldn't touch it for speed. Whatever it was went down in the sea and a Naval carrier appeared there the next day and stayed there with a lot of activity for a few days. I suppose missiles can travel very fast and maybe it was some kind of practice exercise for the jet pilot, but the Naval carrier seemed to be looking for something.
I haven’t read any of his books either Janice. I met TG when he gave a short lecture at my local library and we chatted at the end, and he invited me to a concert. At the time I was a single parent and wasn’t about to refuse a free ticket to a concert at the Festival Hall. I have to admit that I was far more enamoured of his musical career than of his UFO interests, and I did get a lot of music in those few months both in London and around the UK. I was often accompanied to London concerts by his best friend who was a solicitor without a partner and continued to be his ‘spare’ for many years after. Reading some of T Gs reviews of his books in the last few days I have to agree with many, that although his research is forensic, he is, and was in my opinion, a polemicist to the core without any real foundation for his beliefs. That does not mean that I am an unbeliever. I’m sure ‘ they ‘ are out there and that they are probably watching us. I do also believe that governments across the world are frightened of allowing what is known to be made public. But in the long run it’s not a subject I have any particular interest in.
I am interested that you saw an incident as you say in the 90s. A friend and I, when in my garden quite recently saw, very high up in the sky, an extremely close formation of three aircraft leaving a trail above, and at such speed when as high as that planes usually seem to be moving rather slowly. We searched the internet for some information and could find nothing.
It was overwhelming, Miriam, and such a change of family circumstance for me that it's too much to take in all at once. I'm not ready to describe it yet, but thank you so much for asking.
What a magical end to the Ashes series. A fairytale ending for Stuart Broad, his last bat scoring a 6 and his last bowl actually winning the 5th test. With all his family and fans watching it was wonderful to see his delighted reaction. What a magnificent way to end his career. If only it hadn’t rained all day at Old Trafford we could, and should, have won the series and the Ashes back. I think Ben Stokes has done a great job in restoring audience interest in Test Matches. They are more exciting to watch these days.
I haven't been 'up to scratch' lately as my leg have broken into blisters but as it was Chris birthday they spent the time with me so I didn't have T MS on. We went in the evening to an Italian restaurant then came home to see 'The Escape Room' Both of which my granddaughter wanted ! Just as we went to turn TV off we found out that they did it ! Even though my usual time of 10.00 we both wanted to watch it. It was fantastic but I think that Broad upset the batsman with altering the bails. Think it might be a problem in the future ! By the way the BBC are stopping TMS on longwave next year (and too the 'shipping forecast) and will be on digital etc. Actually I think they will be giving up the longwave frequency altogether ! We listen to 5 live sports extra to the cricket on the TV otherwise we listen to medium wave. Family have now gone to St Albans for a few days to meet up with Uni friends then on Sunday travelling to Hatterheim-am-Maine ! Just about packed .
Yes, you are right Spicy. The Beeb have said they will be switching off long wave altogether because maintenance of the transmitters has become too expensive. We are unhappy with this decision because we only get very poor FM here, being down in a bit of a valley and we have to have the radio in exactly the right place, facing a certain way with the aerial Sticking out horizontally! DAB is much better but we can’t get it in the kitchen - walls too thick!
Yet another miserable day. Constant rain. I’m now getting worried about how I’m going to empty my water butts before winter instead of the worry of them being nearly empty. Delivery of winter log supply coming at lunch time. Luckily they are totally covered because they won’t be getting put in the log store today. Mr PtbY normally barrows them to me and I stack them. (I’m a bit of a control freak when it comes to the stacking!) but this year he’ll have to do it all. I’m going to go out when this happens so I’m not tempted to step in. Lol
I empty them so it isn’t stood stagnant all winter and so they don’t freeze and crack the water butts. An older/wiser friend told me that’s what you do so I just do as he says. Doesn’t anyone else empty them?
Ptby - we have never emptied our water butt (except when using it for watering plants in dry weather) and it has never frozen. It is placed on bricks and against the outside kitchen wall where the drainpipe is, so maybe it is protected from the worst of winter weather.
I’m still not well ! Yesterday I felt more like myself, but still a bit wobbly and lightheaded. I am continuing with the medication, but whatever virus I’ve got, it hasn’t yet run it’s course. Not really complaining….. just a bit fed up. Still there is always a silver lining. Friend has now taken Lady on several walks up on North Hill with his dog Mischa and they have been companionable together. Lady has always been very responsive to men. When out for our walks she always makes a beeline for any men about, whether they have a dog or not. Now she seems to be behaving very differently with Simon than she behaves with me. She is apparently asking him if she can go off independently ( ie rabbiting ) and if he says no, she doesn’t. She never asks me, just goes, I’m wondering if it’s because she is less confident with him as, with me, she has always been confident because I’ve allowed her freedom without consent.
So far, so lucky weatherwise. I woke up to rain and everything very wet, but then blue skies and sunshine. It's been a day of sun, light clouds, warm and humid, with no sign of rain or the predicted storms, well just that is.
Good news from OZ today. About 3-4 weeks ago my niece was made redundant with no notice (not sure if said this here). She has just accepted a new job, which is perfect for her, apart from a cut in salary. She is now the product manager for a firm supplying high class hats, only a 20 min drive away from her home. She is perfect for this due to her previous experience, as at one time she was a hat/accesories designer for the fashion firm Helen Kaminiski and has always worked in fashion.
AP Thought of you today, re the Scout Jamboree with a grandson(?) in S. Korea. I believe there have been awful rain + floods which is affecting it. Hopefully all will be well and the experience will still be, just that. 😀
Yes there were terrible floods last week. Several divers were killed when a motorway tunnel flooded and the vehicles couldn’t drive out. The drivers just drowned in their cars! But haven’t heard any adverse news yet so 🤞
Although still feeling rotten, I’ve actually achieved something today. I firmed up my design for the upper terrace of my garden. No colours yet but the basics down on paper. I’ve bought a bead wristlet for friend Simons daughter who is 20 tomorrow. She is neuro divergent and went and got herself a job last week. This was a huge step forward for her and she is enjoying being allowed to use the washing up machine. Says she can’t use the coffee machine yet but “ I’ve been watching the others and I’m looking forward to doing it “ So today I’ve stitched a tiny silk bag to put the wrist band in. And I’ve taken Lady to the park…. Very s..l..o..w..l..y, picking some blackberries on the way. Simple things but after over a week of achieving nothing, an improvement.
It was a whirlwind, Janice. I've got most of the rest of my family back. There were nephews I hadn't seen for 35 years or more - all these men now in their 60s and I didn't know who they were. I've never been hugged so much in one day, and so anxious to try and make up for their mother's mischief-making. The sister-in-law wasn't told i was coming, and her face when I reached out and touched her hand as she left the chapel changed from frail, tearful bereavement to slate-faced dislike in the blink of an eye. John and I were the two most alike in the family, so to suddenly see his face after his funeral must have been a most unpleasant shock. I am still estranged from their children, but one of the sons lives in Wales not far from my son and his partner knows my daughter-in-law, so I'm leaving that side of things to his well-honed diplomatic skills. There was no invitation to refreshments, and I doubt they all went their separate ways to watch repeats of Coronation Street, so one can only assume that the rest of us were simply not invited. Certainly her sister and extensive family were firmly placed at the front of the chapel, so that all her husband's relatives had to sit at the back. Nephew no 3 laid on 4**** refreshments at his amazing hotel. Do remember that I'm the villain of the piece here and far too evil to be admitted to the bosom of my family!
That was quite an experience Sarnia and so glad some family members wereready with their hugs and apologies, and that you did get to say goodbye 🌹 to your brother. When you feel up to it the flights scenarios will be looked out for!
I’ve been out today for two hours and I’m exhausted ! I needed to collect a bracelet which I had ordered for my friends daughter. I drove there, about a mile, and then back into town to pick up my bread and have a coffee and one of my bakers chestnut sausage rolls, sat and chatted, then back home. I had taken Lady for a very short trip along the lane before I went.
I had hoped to be able to deliver the gift and walk the Blue Anchor beach later, but fear I won’t have the energy. No headache so far today, but very depleted. I am realising I am old !
You've been unwell. Mrs P. It tends to have that effect. I'mm sure you'll pick up, as you seem to be doing really well. Probably expecting too much of yourself so soon.
Hope you soon feel much better Mrs. P. Does anyone else catch sight of themselves unexpectedly and think 'poor old soul' or similar, only to realise the ancient wreck is in fact themselves? It happens to me a lot, always a shock to see myself as others do. Sarnia, so glad you got to say goodbye to your brother, it must have taken a lot to go into the lion's den. Was it in Guernsey? If so, was the flight by Aurigny? I have had a couple of hair-raising flights with them in the past.
We booked with Aurigny but got transferred to Blue Island fir the evening flight as they work together. The weather conditions can be hair-raising at times. I remember when I used to fly back and forth as a student that i would sometimes arrive back at campus in North London hours later still a strange shade of pale green.
I can imagine, Sarnia. i once had such a ghastly flight to Guernsey that I felt compelled to speak to a stewardess. she said that the pilots would always make every effort to get home, despite the weather!!
Mistral…. I catch sight of myself and think it’s my mother looking at me, when she was in her 80’s. It was awful crossing at the traffic lights to go to Lidl and seeing myself all the way in the reflection of their windows hobbling along with a stick.
Had my 7 week post op check up with surgeon yesterday. All well. Can at last bend legs and get rid of the dreaded raised toilet seat. Celebrated by going to the pub, walking there with no sticks! It wasn’t far and I was slow, concentrating on walking correctly and not limping. Then had a lovely comfy night, at last, sat on the sofa in pj’s with my leg bent up and sat cross legged with a cushion under for support for a bit. Getting back to normality at last.
I know that awful feeling when catching sight of yourself in a shop window PtbY. Been happening to me for a few years now especially since my walking has deteriorated and I’m back on 2 sticks. But very glad you are able to do more and get out and about. Just avoid looking in shop windows!
Archerphile did you have 1 or 2 hips done overtime? I remember one about 4 or 5 yrs ago has it (or them) deteriorated over time or trouble with the supporting surrounding muscles if so would re starting the exercises help you? Such a shame you are back to 2 sticks but if that keeps you safe that is the main thing 🙏🏼
I am feeling extremely irritated. I have just received my car insurance reminder, & I knew it would be going up as I managed to get done for speeding last year, twice 3 months apart 🥺 so actually surprised it hadn’t gone up as much as I expected. Then I thought “When is my road tax due?” I haven’t received the V11 reminder through the post, and of course there is no disc to check any more. So I go online & realise it was due on the first of August! Arrghhh, obviously I paid it immediately but I am liable for an £80 fine. Apparently the V11 notification is a courtesy & the 5 days grace got removed along with the paper discs. I am fuming, if they sent a email reminder in addition to relying on the Royal Mail which the government has allowed to be run into the ground I would be less upset. I always check the post carefully before putting the junk mail into the recycling so I am positive that the letter idn’t arrive. The garage I use always sends me a reminder when my MOT is due, I et emails & texts from my insurance provider…Reminder going onto my ipad calendar now! Rant over but still peeved. Hope everyone else is feeling better, good to hear that PTBY is on the mend & that Sarnia is home safely.
I think you will be fine, as sorted so quickly and efficiently. 🫰 I bet a genuine mistake is obvious and there will be no consequences. On thinking back, my reminder has always come on paper, via the post. Has this now changed, I wonder.
We get email notifications from DVLA whenever our road tax is due and you can opt for it to be paid automatically, if you give your bank details. I know not everyone is comfortable with this method but at least it means we never forget to pay it.
I feel peeved for you KP I’m sure you should have received a car tax reminder could have been “lost” in the post especially as a daily delivery is not the norm now (well not here anyway) 2 speeding tickets in 3 months oh dear KP 🫢 as you are fairly local to me where did you get caught same place each time or different areas? I heard of someone some time ago who got done twice in one day going through Heath End Farnham to and from the large Tesco store in Aldershot and no it was not me but that day may yet be to come 😳
Miriam - you were right about conditions in South Korea. We have just heard the British Scouts have been pulled off the campsite and transferred to hotels. There is extreme heat and many are falling ill. The S. Korea gov’mnt is sending help, ambulances, food and water and taking the worst affected to hospital. There is a full and frightening report on the BBC news website. Apparently toilet and shower conditions are awful and not safe. Griff is terribly disappointed and what was supposed to be the (very expensive) trip of a lifetime is turning into a nightmare. Thank you Global Warming !
I wish him well. At least you have heard something, as I believe communications are not good at the moment. Thank Goodness he is now safe in a hotel. My previous comment came from The Guardian with pictures, showing some of the campdite was flooded.
On a totally and different diverse topic. As a youngster, I remember a lovely book, with coloured photos, showing the events of our late Queen's Coronation and recall looking at it much later in life. No idea what happened to it though, but it just disappeared. After experiencing the latest Coronation (the 1st in my life-time), I have today ordered such a book with all the official photos, and what occured, starting on the day of accession. This is from the Buckingham Palce official shop web-site, and I hope it is similar to the one I remember so well. I just thought I would mention this, in case of interest to others, in marking this moment in modern history.
To add, I have an interesting book which I bought in one of the Jubilee's - think 40th. It is Life in 1953, showing things like kitchen appliances, the life of the house-wife and caring for a family etc.etc. Fascinating, though I remember things the same when just a child.
Archerphile It is a very sorry state of affairs andI am so disappointed for the Scouts whatever the nationality but especially for our Scouts. My Group has 2 Scouts from Gillingham District and a Leader from our Group as well. They have been fundraising for about two years with hosting qutz nights, Indian meals at restaurants, cake sales and of course raffles. I hope the temperature drops down a bit. I did see the fields they were in and thought " but there aren't any trees !" Not an ideal camp site. Hopefully the English adults have allowed them some leeway in taking the Scouts off the sites and ,hopefully, into air conditioned hotels.
My daughter, a Scout leader herself, says she is very sorry for all the helpers that have gone out with the Scouts and have the massive job of looking after all the youngsters and trying to organise help. They have given up their summers and paid £4000 each to go to Korea. The whole event is very bad publicity for the S. Korean government too, who are trying to establish the country as a venue for big world events like Olympics and World Cups.
It's the unfortunate weather systems, which no-one could predict nor prevent. It's heartwarming though that, the UK leaders are sorting things out, and in such a satisfactury way. I worry about others who are not being so lucky.
Road tax Some time after we lost our round discs showing that our cars were taxed, I too over ran one year. I was advised to pay my road tax monthly as a DD which means that it is never out of date. Not sure how much by, but it does cost a little more, but only by a few pounds. For me it’s been worthwhile.
I put when the road tax is due on the month on our calendar at the beginning of the year. I also write on MOT due dates, insurances due, boiler servicing and chimney sweeping. Then when you flip it over you know what needs doing that month.
PtbY - That was Penny, an Orange roan cocker spaniel, who we adopted from her breeder, age 6. She lived with us until her death at 11 years old. She was the best dog we ever had, so much so that she has spoilt us for having another yet. We will, I’m sure get another dog one day but not sure when.
What a day ☔️💦☔️ but it is Summer of course so only to be expected 🫢 Such a shame for events weddings etc though - my neighbour is going to a Care Home Summer Party and then onto a 60th birthday “do” with gazebos at the ready in the garden complete with caterers re food etc. just might get a better couple of hours mid afternoon 🤞🏼seems like everything will need to be moved inside though.
Yes, Lady R, the rain here has been torrential for the past half hour. Every time a car passes our house, we get a massive wave of water down our lounge windows as they plough (much too fast) through the floods. It’s like being in a ship at sea!
Flights: Outward flight on the Monday evening, 'touch and go' as my son's train from Wales was delayed by an hour due to the perennial school holiday boredom-reliever of throwing concrete blocks on the line. Apparently our pilot is known for taking an interest in his passengers, so before take off he described the route he would take and the landmarks to look out for on which side of the plane. I hadn't been back since my last trip with Mr S in 2018 and thought it unlikely that I would be returning in the foreseeable future, and at the sound of the beloved names - the Casquets lighthouse, Sark, Herm, Jethou, the tears streamed down my face. The next thing I knew, the pilot was squatting beside me, holding my hand and asking what was wrong. My son said i was going to a funeral, so he asked about that. I also told him that it was my first visit since 2018, the year before my husband died. His words were very gentle and comforting - all SO unexpected. It was the same pilot on the way back the following evening (he does 6 return trips a day, and describes himself as a glorified bus driver). He saw me while addressing the throng and came to ask how the funeral went (he noted that I was even in the same seat). I showed him the rather beautiful Order of Service and he looked at it for a long time. On reaching Southampton we waited until last to disembark,as I'm very slow and awkward in such a confined space and it gives them time to bring the wheelchair. When I reached the little flight of steps my gallant Captain was waiting. He took my coat and held out a hand for me to hold as I descended. To be honest, it would have been easier to hold both handrails, but as it would have been churlish in the extreme to decline such a charming gesture, I let him be my 'knight in shining armour'! I said, 'Every time you come in to land from this direction you fly right over my house', to which he replied in all seriousness, 'We don't charge any extra for that'. His kindness was the icing on the cake of what turned out to be a huge reversal in my family fortunes: he was probably fortyish, about the same age as my children so I must have reminded him of his own mother. I am no longer the tail-ender of a family to which I never really belonged, but regarded as a 'big sister' by the next generation, the eldest of whom still on the Island is but 11 years younger than me. My son plans further visits with me by air, rather than the tortuous ferry journey from Poole insisted upon by my husband. Hope we get the same pilot!
Blue Islands, Mistral, and they work in tandem with Aurigny but it's a very odd relationship: there were flights from both airlines due out at the same time, but my son booked with Aurigny because it was cheaper. However, there was actually only the one plane, which we were put on anyway, even though we hadn't paid the more expensive fare! That's ery Guernseyigic!
Has anybody got suggestions ( not rude, please) for what I can do with a bunch of very large beetroots? They came in a bargain box of fruit and veg Mr A got at Lidl yesterday. A crate containing: 2 different types of lettuce, an aubergine, a courgette, a cucumber, a head of celery, a large bag of organic carrots a bag of Braeburn Apples, an avocado and this bunch of beetroot. All for £1.50!! I have boiled the beetroot and they are sitting in the pan of water, but what do I do with them now?
Borscht maybe, or I have made fritters (containing feta as well I think) Riverford veg boxes have lots of good recipes on their website. Absolutely tipping down in my corner of Hampshire, & forecast to continue along with some thunder well into the evening. I pity those at the Wickham Festival this weekend.
Archerphile, I do a lovely traybake, on BBC Goodfood website, 'Roasted Root Veg Traybake' by Elena Silcock. I use beetroot as one of several veg, it adds a lovelt flavour. I dont bother with the nuts and seeds though.
And if too much to eat at once slice and pickle in hot malt vinegar with a bit of soft brown sugar added. I really like beetroot but don't seem to have much luck growing it. Planted some seeds last year and they must have gone down to Australia,
As Janice has said, pickle it in kilner jars. It lasts for ages and great in salads. I do a beetroot salad - olive oil, balsamic vinegar, garlic and thyme/mace..but all cooked together to get the flavours to then let it go cold. Sis has a recipe for a casserole which has beetroot in it, called somthething like red velvet casserole...
I'm not a great fan of carrot cake but the Riverford recipe produces a cake that even I like. They say it works well with beetroot too - I'm prepared to take their word for it! My mum made a courgette cake of all things. It actually tasted pretty good - and I like courgettes even less than I like beetroot.
Mistral, I've suddenly realised why your Aurigny flight was so scary. It must have been in the days of the Norman-Britten Trislander aircraft, tiny little things, about 20 passengers, 10 down each side with an open cockpit and mailbags or bundles of newspapers under your seat. If you weren't used to flying they were quite an experience. When Flybe went bust Aurigny got bigger aircraft so they now fly Dorniers and ATRs like everyone else!
Sarnia, yes, you are right! I loved the tiny aircraft but not in (seemingly) gale force winds, being thrown around, made Alton Towers seem tame:) I still managed to be a frequent flyer though, but it's a long time since i flew there. My son now lives in Jersey and I catch the ferry, but I must say I prefer Guernsey, happy memories. I think St. Peter Port is one of the prettiest places to visit. Followed by Sark.
Did you ever get to fly in G-JOEY and receive a certificate? That's something we never managed, much to my children's disappointment. When the Trislanders were taken out of service there was outrage when Aurigny were going to have him broken up. Funds were raised to save him and he is now suspended in mid-air in a museum at the Oatlands Heritage complex. There was always great excitement when a Trislander was heard flying over our house, and everyone would go rushing out to see if it was JOEY! We have all the JOEY adventure books by one of the pilots - not well-written but the illustrations are hilarious.
1lb (450g) cooked beetroot. Grated rind + juice of 1 large orange. 1 tablespoon sugar 2-3 cloves garlic 1 1/2 to 2lb (775g to 900g) best stewing beef 1oz (25g) butter or equivalent 30ml olive oil two heaped teaspoons ground ginger 1 tablespoon plain flour 5 fl.oz ( 150g) fresh soured cream (only for serving). salt + black pepper to taste. 1/2 pint (300ml) water
Whiz beetroot, orange juice + rind, sugar, garlic + water in liquidiser. Chop meat into cubes and brown in olive oil + butter in a suitable casserole or pan. Add ginger, remove from heat + stir in flour. Add the beetroot mix, bring up heat and put into a casserole dish and cook for 2-1/2 hours at about 140C, gas mark 2 or 3 and season to taste. Freezes well . To serve, add soured cream, if wanted.
To add, not sure about the tablespoon of sugar. It is what the recipe says, but sounds far too much to me, but that's as to my taste. Personally would use just a teaspoon...but tgen I don't have a "sweet tooth".
You people eat BEETROOT???? It's disgusting!! Even the smell of it cooking traumatises my intestines - it smells of boiled earth. Yuk, or as we say in Guernsey, Boudyax!
Thank you everyone for your great ideas for beetroot. My first thought was simply to put it in a jar of vinegar for salads (I regularly buy picked beetroot anyway). But some of these other ideas sound wonderful. Thank you Miriam for writing out the whole beef and beetroot recipe, sounds magnificent! And I have found recipe for a chocolate cake cooked with beetroot too I am going to be busy!
Currently in Edinburgh on childcare duties for a 3yr old and 18 month old. Having been sat on, jumped on and spent a lot of time playing on the floor I've been pleased with the way that the hip has held up. Haven't read the other blog as I haven't caught up with last night yet. Archerfile, I like roast beetroot, parsnips, leeks, walnuts and sage with honey and balsamic vinegar. We always roast beetroot rather than boil and find that it peels more easily while still warm. Any that's left over we usually eat tossed in a vinaigrette.
Thanks again everyone for the multitude of beetroot ideas, I never realised there were so many things to do with them. I might even try growing some next year!
Quick update on grandson in South Korea - daughter managed to get a short video call with him today. He had been taken ill with heat exhaustion and multiple mosquito bites yesterday, but said he was well looked after in a makeshift medical facility. He feels better today and has been taken to a hotel in Seoul with other British Scouts. They are waiting to be allocated rooms. Nobody knows what will happen for the rest of their stay or what activities might be arranged.
Sarnia thank you so much for your flight(s) post. It has made my day what a wonderful man your pilot was friendly, compassionate and informative, and so glad for you that he should be so on such an important and emotional occasion. Do hope you get to fly with him again!
Beetroot is a superfood, and I don’t eat enough of it although I love it. I remember it often being boiled in my mothers kitchen, and yet I don’t remember it being grown on my father’s allotment, which seems to me now, strange. I never much liked the smell of it cooking, and it was always drowned in vinegar. Why ? And only ever eaten with/ as salad. Many decades later we became friends with a couple and she was Polish. She taught me to serve beetroot hot as a vegetable with a white sauce, a revelation to me. Now I’m frequently eating beetroot as both sons in law cook with it, usually roasted and with skin on. I tend to cook a single bulb to eat with cold meat or as a salad ingredient.
Over recent days, not eating anything, I’ve been thinking back to when my girls were small and I fed them with a macrobiotic ethos. ( I’m not sure that phase lasted very long ) these memories were kicked off by a friend writing about her day out with family to Bristol and visiting St Martins market, where I used to buy my grains. I used to make huge bowls of grain and vegetable salads for parties and picnics, but couldn’t remember the ingredients that I used beyond red or white cabbage. So I trawled some recipes on line and now I have a list of ingredients and intend (?) to try to eat better than I have in recent years. This includes grating raw beetroot into my salads - think carrot and beetroot together . And NO VINEGAR ! I can find no motivation to cook for myself alone, clearly a huge gap in my self esteem. I think that for me, cooking is an act of love, or nurturing of another, and obviously I’m not worthy. I remember as a young woman I consciously ate well in order to lay down good health in my old age. Now here I am in my ‘ old age’ and not eating at all well. I must change.
I ended up using my Lidl veg box beetroot to make a thick soup with garlic and a horseradish cream swirled through. To be honest, I enjoyed the taste of the horseradish more than the beetroot! My daughter told me medical studies have found that drinking beetroot juice daily helps keep blood pressure down, which would be good for me. I obediently bought a carton of beetroot juice (expensive) but couldn’t stand the taste. Mixing it with some orange juice might have helped.
I always spell it aeroplanes with an 'e', but my phone corrected it. To me the word looks wrong with an 'i' in it, so I stand by my convictions: Aeroplanes!!
JaniceJuly 19, 2023 at 7:58 PM
ReplyDeleteYou've been having a very tough time lately Archerfile. I hope that when things go wrong with the house that it is Mr A. who does all the phoning up and sorting out. If you leave him to organise these things it might encourage him to think seriously about moving.
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SarniaJuly 19, 2023 at 8:11 PM
Mr S didn't believe in university - thought it was a waste of time. I had longed to go all my life, and at 62, with a little help from my daughter-in-law, I enrolled first and told him afterwards. I knew he wouldn't argue with the Head of Programme, because he would never stand up to another man in authority.
MiriamJuly 20, 2023 at 5:09 PM
ReplyDeleteArcherphile.
You are a true fighter, and I so admire you for this.
Now - how to get Mr AP to realise that a move is best for you? This must be so difficult to even consider. I am sure that in your heart you do not want to leave your cottage.
My Little Sis is just doing similar now. They are leaving their Norfolk barn conversion, downsizing, and moving to be near to her grandkids and daughters. It's all very complicated, but they are going into a rental property so to keep their buyers happy..
She doesn't mind this as knows that her new life, is now only a few months away.
This is the sister with an incurable liver problem (an auto immune one) which is under total control.
She just feels that she now wants to be much nearer her family and grandsons, as is finally a pensioner (66yrs last January).
She has got her prorities so right.
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ArcherphileJuly 20, 2023 at 9:40 PM
She certainly has Miriam and I wish her well and all the best for the future
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OldWomanInAShoeJuly 21, 2023 at 9:24 AM
ReplyDeleteMy third starter word was the Wordle today : )
The other day, two of my three came up in Duotrigordle.
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SpicycushionJuly 21, 2023 at 10:32 AM
Son coming over for ten days on 'home leave' with whole family. I haven't seen daughter in law since before Covid so I am excited !
Now I must find health insurance as I never had then in Germany, as son and family will take me back for a fortnight !
Now there is so much to do but am lying on the sofa listening to cricket !
Have ordered portable fan, two new pyjamas, underclothes, sun hat and loads of present for dil's mother is also visiting, as well as her brother, wife and 4 year old daughter !
Thank goodness we're going on Eurotunnel !
Lady RJuly 21, 2023 at 11:42 AM
ReplyDeleteGood grief Spicy what wonderful news but busy busy times ahead - well once you get off the sofa that is 🤣🏏 if you ever get time will look forward to hearing how all visits go.
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Cheshire CheeseJuly 21, 2023 at 12:45 PM
I hope that all goes well with your forthcoming precious family time Spicycushion.
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AmbridgesMrsPJuly 21, 2023 at 12:58 PM
After all your horrific health issues Spicycushion you certainly deserve all the love you will receive from your extended family members.
And I hope John/Jon gets all the admiration he deserves for looking after you during your most challenging times.
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ArcherphileJuly 21, 2023 at 1:04 PM
Have a wonderful visit Spicy, you deserve it, as does Jon. What a lovely burst of sunlight for you at the end of a long tunnel. Enjoy!
Have a great time Spicey.
ReplyDeleteOn another subject……I downloaded scrabble onto my phone this lunchtime. I have not moved off the sofa since!! Definitely taken my mind off any jobs that I can’t be doing. Next 6 weeks will fly by. Lol. AND I got a 7 letter word to start with on one game, standee, that capped the ruddy computer/internet whatever opponent!
Spicy. What a family re-union is happening. It will be a wonderful time for you all. Enjoy.
ReplyDeleteLove the new picture KP, a welcome change for me.
ReplyDeleteAgree the picture is just glorious KP 🤗
DeleteNot a good time for me at the moment.
ReplyDeleteI’m OK but all around me is chaos
The carpenter, with whom I have been endlessly patient with his unreliability, considerate of his personal and family problems as a single parent, and his endless promises to turn up and then not doing so, has finally returned my doors to Howdens who will kindly store them ( purchased and paid by me of course) until I can find another trader.
Another single father who I have befriended over the last year - he helps me and I support him by providing a listening ear - has now been homeless for six weeks. He has moved from basic and cheap hotel to holiday caravan from week to week. Local authorities will not house him and daughter because they do not recognise 11 year old dog Mischa as family. His ex has plastered social media with lies about him and finally last evening he was assaulted in public by thugs who recognised him from social media posts.
I have now spent an hour and a half waiting for another tradesman to turn up for an appointment with, yet again, a no show.
Good news is that Lady has now allowed two separate dogs to be in her garden sharing space - both dogs supervised and leashed - and has twice been tolerated in the caravan with Mischa. This is huge progress with her socialisation.
I’m not complaining, just off loading a bit !
Hope that’s OK.
MrsP feel free to off load any time. It’s good to hear how Lady is continuing to develop, she is very lucky to have found you. It is sometimes quite draining when people you are in contact with are having a hard time, even if you aren’t affected per se.
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ReplyDeleteSpicey, it all sounds exciting but exhausting.
I seem to be busy growing into a new identity.
Won't be sharing.
I hope we do not lose your new identity Sarnia.
DeleteDon't worry, Mrs P. When I've worked out what it is I'll let you know.
DeleteCould be it's who I was all along, but just got submerged!
Sarnia ❤️
DeleteJust be whoever you want to be in your own way.
That is what I do and it works...well I hope it does 😆
Just heard from another nephew today: sister-in-law has published brother's funeral details in today's paper. It's on 25th, IE, in 3 days' time!
ReplyDeleteMad scramble to find flights and accommodation for self and son, as we'll have to fly out on Monday night.
Forgive my suspicious nature, but how on earth do you get a crem. slot at such short notice?
I wonder if my turning up will be unexpected?
What does it matter as to others as you + son, want to be there.
DeleteI bet you will be welcomed with open arms at this sad time.
Hold your head up high and embrace all.
Most unlikely, Miriam, when we had been banned from seeing each other or even communicating since our mother's funeral in 1989!
DeleteHe's your brother Sarnia you have every right to be there.
ReplyDeleteAnd if it is unexpected and they don’t know how to greet you, just smile your way through.
DeleteIf you are ignored by those present, just remember it is your brother you are there for, not them.
And you will after all have your son by your side.
The best of luck Sarnia.
Mrs AP so agree.
DeleteA lovely smile means such a lot for all.
I plan to keep my head down and my mouth shut - unless spoken to, of course. This is the sister-in-law who thinks I only play the organ and write poetry to show off.
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“If you’ve got it flaunt it” Sarnia 🤗 sounds as if your Sister-in-law deep inside has low self esteem therefore digging at you and keeping your brother away from you as she did gives/ gave her some sort of power to compensate.
DeleteShow them wrong Sarnia!.
DeleteAs said - Head up High and just show what a great person you truly are!!
Go for it - to then enjoy the reaction! You can do it 🌟
I think she is possessive and probably jealous of the relationship we had when I was little.
DeleteThe Cricket - What a shame that the weather is playing such a prominent part, in what should have been a brilliant match.
ReplyDeleteAm I biased - Of course I am 🏏 🏴
You and me both Miriam. What a disappointment today after yesterdays fantastic play.
DeleteLet’s hope for a break in the clouds tomorrow. ⛅️
The weather forecast doesn't look very promising for the cricket or here, about 20 miles away. I was hoping to do some gardening instead I'll be researching new Samsung tablets instead. I dropped mine on the floor in the conservatory. It didn't look damaged but as I was using it a band of blue appeared on the right of the screen and is gradually spreading across so it's damaged internally. It was an old one but still in good working order, I'm really annoyed with myself.
DeleteIt might be worth looking on a site like Music Magpie or CEX both of which sell refurbished tech, they’ll have a 12 month warranty & you can make significant savings, especially if you’re not hung up on having the latest model
DeleteIs it still usable right now CC what data do you keep on it ie contacts etc that you may need to save to transfer to new tablet. Not that I truly understand these things.
DeleteLast Monday I had to visit Apple Store Basingstoke to have a new iPhone battery fitted having contacted Apple first to have done over the airwaves what needed to be done prior to appointment 🧐 IPad is in same situation but has to be sent back to replace battery. Phone was just a back up to iCloud which happens automatically most of the time anyway but has to be manually done for this procedure and check if any new iOS data had to be loaded.
Because iPad has to go away as well as back up to iCloud I will have to erase the pad as if selling or passing it on to another user then download my data from iCloud on its return. Well that’s the theory 😃😂😃 I have had both products - always in use for 5 yrs cone September so can’t complain. Still had iPad 2 somewhere with some photo albums on…..
Hopefully I'll be able to transfer to the new one over WiFi as I did with my phone. If not it's all backed up which would be more awkward but can be done.
DeleteI've just checked my tablet, the screen is now half black. I reckon it will be all black by tomorrow 😥 New one should arrive on Wednesday 🤞
DeleteI have just replaced my laptop - the old one was starting to randomly produce the blue screen of death, followed by claims that it had no hard drive. Generally it sulks for a bit and then turns back pretending nothing had ever been wrong. But I need the thing to work and I can't risk it dying completely, nor can I spare it to send it off for repair. So, off to Curry's I went.
DeleteNext day delivery was hampered by a DPD agent who can't tell the difference between a church and a vicarage. The second driver tried the same trick, despite photos of the fron door and clear instructions on the app. Fortunately I was watching out for him.
All was well, I plugged the new laptop in and switched on the power. POP! And a smell of burning. Not a good response from a brand new computer ...
The offending machine went back to Curry's and a replacement was ordered. So now I have a shiny new laptop that doesn't take 3 hours to load a web page and, hopefully, won't keep crashing itself or Zoom. It runs Windows 11 too, although, to be honest, I've yet to work out how it differs from Windows 10.
I hope your new tablet behaves itself CC and doesn't go snap, crackle, or pop!
Thrilled today - I finally have flowers on my runner bean plants!
ReplyDeleteThese have been a long time coming, esp. as a neighbour across the road who planted his just two weeks earlier, has already picked and is eating beans!
I have today accepted a quote for some new fences to go alongside my driveway, plus new side gate and panel, to be brought about 3ft forwards. I don't use the drive down the side of the house, so it is better to have this land for a different usage.
As per usual for me, I will be spending more than I intended, but frankly not that concerned. I will be getting exactly what I want!
I did have a cheaper quote, but the difference as to the quality and final look, was so very different.
A long wait though - probably late September.
I know CC had a great time at the RHS Tatton Flower Show. I always know when it happens, as I have a fantastic Lily which flowers at the same time. This is not surprising though, as I bought the corms many years ago at the same show, and are now gorgeous as are in full bloom.
ReplyDeleteSo Australia retains The Ashes as to the draw. To my mind it is by default due to our so-called British summer weather. No doubt that this has happened before...and will hsppen again..
ReplyDeleteJust had an enjoyable afternoon listening to “whodunnit…the poisoned chocolates” which was on 4extra on Saturday at 5pm. Would recommend.
ReplyDeleteHow wierd, as I also listened to exactly the same broadcast this morning whilst blitzing my bedroom (and it so needed it).
DeleteI found it fascinating and would also recommend.
We have just had the enormous privilege of being able to watch our granddaughter Rosie’s Graduation Ceremony on a live link from Warwick University. It was brilliant reception and, unlike, funeral links, the camera was able to change angles, zoom in on faces, show the processions in full and also focus in on the audience. It was just as good as being there. Better in fact!
ReplyDeleteSo Rosie got a BA, first class with Hons and will be staying on next year to do a PGCE in English, which attracts a bursary as it’s a subject with a shortage of teachers. We are a very proud Grandma and Grandpa this afternoon, especially as her older brother Max never had a ceremony due to Covid
How Brilliant. 🩷
DeleteWell done Rosie! I wish her all the best for her PGCE, we need good teachers!
DeleteJust a little photo of her big day
ReplyDeleteWell done Rosie !!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Rosie. A lovely picture Archerfile.
ReplyDeleteWell done Rosie and a super picture AP such a beautiful looking young lady too (hopefully it is ok to make such a remark in 2023🤔)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Rosie and to proud parents and you and Mr ARCHERPHILE. I hope I get the same opportunity next year with my granddaughter.
DeleteIn very smart room in my nephew's hotel, listening to the wind on the sea.
ReplyDeleteFirst time I've been back since Mr S died. My son's head is reeling from all the names on my side of the family that he never knew.
Funeral tomorrow at 12 noon.
I hope today isn’t too difficult Sarnia. Maybe you & your son will be able to connect with some of your other family members ,if that is what you want.
DeleteWell said KP and thinking of you Sarnia .
DeletePhotographs this morning from daughter of Tilda G daughter successfully reaching the summit of Ben Nevis
ReplyDelete👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
DeleteWell done to your granddaughter MrsP
DeleteGreat achievement for her Mrs P, well done!
DeleteHope today isn’t too much of a trial for you Sarnia.
Finally got a massive load of washing out onto the line today.
ReplyDeleteI put the wash machine on the timer last night, so was pegging it all out at 7.30am, still half asleep + in dressing gown + slippers.
It was luckily dry by the time the rain started mid-afternoon.
That's the best I can do re news at the moment..😔
New tablet now up and running. I was very lucky and managed to move everything over from my old one in spite of two thirds of the screen being g black. I was also able to do a factory reset on the old one, phew! Now just got a lot of signing in to do and get used to the new one, might take a while.
ReplyDeleteMet an old school friend at Dunham Massey today and managed a good walk before the rain came in.
Audrey has turned into a little bugger the last 2 days. Today she got hold of Mabel’s liver tablets and ate15. Hence trip to the vets so she could be induced
ReplyDeleteto vomit. Yet another vets bill!!!
Mr PtbY took her and daphne up the forest, to a remote area, so she wouldn’t meet any dogs, on a long tracing lead. Hopefully by next week she’ll have finished being on heat and we can start some serious walking and training to tire her out.
I have been pretty unwell since Sunday evening.
ReplyDeleteHeadache, eyes sensitive to light and vomiting bile as nothing to bring up.
Unable to keep down the smallest of small sips of water and needing to be prone to cope at all. Called surgery at 4 this afternoon and have just received some medication to stop vomiting. Neighbour upstairs kindly collected for me.
Recently my one surviving radio stopped working and today there is no sound on Iplayer bbc sounds.
I’m bereft without my beloved radio four.
Nothing wrong with Iplayer sound as TV ok.
Any one else getting this problem ?
Mrs P I have an iPlayer app on my iPad (and a bbc sounds app and that is working ok)
ReplyDeleteThe only radio I can see on iPlayer is Radio 1.. Am I right in thinking you do not have a tv because radio can be available that way too these days. Hope you get sorted and so sorry to hear you are unwell sounds a nasty bug at best. Take care 💐
I don’t have a television Lady R, your right.
DeleteWhen I click on to sounds I am getting everything as normal except the black bars that is clicked to access the sound.
Nothing wrong with the sound on the Iplayer as I was able to get the television news, which is so superficial, and for me unsatisfactory.
I miss Evan on PM today and now won’t be able to hear T A either.
I was also very much looking forward to hearing ‘ Reflections ‘ this morning, James Naughty with Ken Clarke.
So many technical problems recently.
ReplyDeleteAfter all our problems with our landline phone, BT eventually disconnected all our upstairs telephone wiring which was causing the problems. This meant they moved the wifi Modem downstairs from under Mr A’s desk upstairs. Result = he can’t use his computer as it is a 14 yr old version and has to be physically plugged into the modem.
Long discussions about what to replace it with led to a 2hr session in Curry’s choosing a new set up for him. Because he is used to a proper keyboard & mouse & likes to work sitting at his desk it had to be a desktop, he can’t get used to my iPad (his fingers are too big!).
Couldn’t persuade him to move to Apple instead Microsoft Windows - Apple Macs were much too expensive anyway - and the shop will do all the data transfer from old to new computer.
Now we’ll be on a sharp learning curve with Windows 11 instead of the ancient system we know!
I hope that you are feeling better soon MrsP. If you continue being unable to keep fluids down I suggest calling 111.
ReplyDeleteThank you CC.
DeleteI spoke with the surgery desk guards yesterday who conferred with a GP who sent a prescription to Tesco and was picked up by my neighbour upstairs.
Cyclizine it’s worked and the vomiting has ceased.
However the headache is worse and spreading into by neck and back.
I had a call from a very understanding doctor this morning who has now further prescribed Omeprazole.
Thinks it is a bug/virus I’ve picked up and agreed not necessarily food related.
I am of course pretty dehydrated, I did a pinch test on hand and it was pretty slow to return.
I’m satisfied !
BBC Sounds on IPlayer is now functioning, but I am going to call BBC to find if it was a breakdown.
👏🏻 on all fronts Mrs P
DeleteMrs. P. Hope you start to feel better very soon, it sounds horrible. Nice to have a kind neighbour.
ReplyDeleteI understand about the radio, I have 3 in the house plus the laptop and app on phone, but these days I find R3 is better when I am busy as I can't concentrate on the task in hand as well as actively listening, so save dramas etc for the bath and bedtime.
I feel very sad atm, my dear dog died two weeks ago. It is the first time in 19 years that I have been dogless, still doing favourite walks but it feels a bit pointless. As I am in the final stages of decorating etc before putting my house on the market, and then all the upheaval, I won't be looking for another little waif until I am settled in a new house.
Flipping life eh?
Oh Mistral, I am so sorry and know what a huge emotional state it is to loose a dog.
DeleteI’ve always had cats, many, but find that the loss of a cat, tho’ sad is far less than when your dog dies.
My last, twenty five years ago was the middle of three major losses - my partner walking out, and my mother dying, all three within a six month period in 1998.
But the devastation was the dreadful death of my beloved Harry, PTS on the operating table having found massive stomach cancer. The vet was also very upset, having saved her from a dislocated hip after being hit by a moving car, when he was a very junior vet. This was at the Putney RSPCA hospital which many will have known from the television programme in the past.
As for walking being pointless now I fully understand that and that is also a loss to your emotional and physical wellbeing.
I shall look forward to your move when it happened- is it still Devon ? - and then your getting your next loving dog.
It’s timely too.
I want to tell you that it was over twenty years before I got Lady, the reason being that I felt I couldn’t ever love any dog as much as H, but only a few days ago, over four years now that I’ve had L, I looked at her and realised that I love her almost as much as I loved H.
It is good to know that one can have the emotional capacity to love again.
MrsP, I hope you recover soon, a nasty bug can really knock you out. Be Engle on yourself just doin what makes you feel bette. It’s good to hear that you have a kindly neighbour in case of emergency.
ReplyDeleteMistral, I hope all the decorating, house sale etc ones smoothly and you are, in time, able to find a new canine companion.
That should read “be gentle on yourself “ Typo!
DeleteMrs P and KP have said it all Mistral even so I send condolences 💐a very hard time for you right now.
DeleteI am the arch-typical single female "Aunty", who lives alone with her cat!
ReplyDeleteIn my experience, losing a cat is also very traumatic. When my wonderful 17yr old cat met her sad demise last year, I lost my companion and house-share living being.
Whatever pets we have, they are all equally loved and so very sadly missed, when their time comes.
Little Sis is relocating in what is now 2 weeks. She is in a total quandrary as to her dog. This is a black lab. 14yrs old, has quite bad arthritis and now has a cancerous tumour in her mouth, but is still eating well.
She knows that awful decision is going to have be made soon, but when?
Does she move the dog to, firstly a daughters home for a few weeks before moving into a small rental, or does she do the humane thing before all the upheaval happens, and before the dog starts really suffering...I don't envy her deciding, as she just wants to do the best for her beloved dog.
With one’s head the answer is an easy one Miriam but the heart makes it so difficult 💔
DeleteObviously it would be more humane to say goodbye before any move therefore minimising trauma for her beloved dog. I feel for her very much as the true saying says “ Grief is the price we pay for love”.
Miriam - when I moved from my home in London I went to my daughters for three months before moving to Stroud.
DeleteI wasn’t able to take my 17 year old cat, owned. by me since he was 14 to my daughters so my Hammersmith friend took him for those few months then he came with me to a rental in Stroud. He was dead within the next few months.
It was clear to me that he had had enough moves.
It will be clear to your sister which path to take, but also very hard to walk.
She has my sympathy.
Mistral. My heart goes out to you. I know how you feel and people who don’t have a dog can’t understand. It’s like losing an actual member of your family.
ReplyDeleteSensible to wait til you’ve moved before getting another. Your walls now must be very poignant. I always feel a walk is pointless without a dog.
💐😢
Thank you all.
ReplyDeleteWhen I go for walks I take a ball or two to throw in favourite spots, she was an avid collector of other dog's toys, I have never bought a ball but there was a collection of 40 decent ones to throw away for others. It was timely, Mrs. P, and now is the time to move, she was never comfy in rented holiday airbnb's, I wasn't actively waiting for a change before moving but it has mde it easier.
My d.i.l. s pet rat has just died, she is distraught. It really doesn't matter what species the pet is, PTBY is right, it is family.
I saw a wonderful f/b post recently (which popped up in my "news feed"). It was a photo' of a big bucket of tennis balls on the edge of a beach. The message with it was that dog owners should take one, and then throw it, in memory of a much loved dog who loved its time with balls on the beach.
DeleteFor some reason it tugged at my heart-strings.
How lovely, I’m with you Miriam 🥰 🐕🦺 🥎
DeleteI really like what you saw Miriam and thank you for adding it to this thread
DeleteFinally got my lawns mowed, but what a chore. Due to the constant daily rain, they were long..but still wet. Normally I empty the grass box of mower when doing the back lawn perhaps once, today it was 5 times, and blades of mower got so clogged up with wet long grass, I kept having to clear them.
ReplyDeleteAll Done - and look good, even if say so myself!!
Still lots to do, but tomorrow is another day.
My reward - a fish 'n chips tea. It is though, coming out of the freezer...
DeleteThis post is specially for Spicy
ReplyDeleteThe photo is of youngest English grandson, Griff, leaving for the 25th World Jamboree in South Korea.
Just eight years after his older brother Max went to the 23rd World Jamboree in Nagasaki. We are amazed that both boys were chosen to go, thinking another lad from the same family would not be. chosen. But he passed all the tests, raised the money and showed great enthusiasm so off he goes.
Just hoping there won’t be any floods or major disasters while hundreds of Scouts from all over the world are there!
Congratulations to Griff and I hope that is a worthwhile and enjoyable experience. 50,000 Scouts will be at the Jamboree and he'll meet loads of people from UK as well as world wide Scouts ! Lucky man !!!
ReplyDeleteI am joining in with a 'day's Jamboree experience' online.
One of my young leaders went to Nagasaki when I was a Cub Scout Leader.
Radio listenings..
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed "Madame Will You Talk". This is an adaptation from the book by Mary Stewart, and is two 1hr episodes.
I enjoyed the listen but it is slightly confusing and a bit contrived at times.
Would I recommend, not sure as it depends so much on others tastes.
To add, it is only available on Sounds for another week.
I listened to the first episode last night. Totally my cup of tea but I think I’ve heard it before. Will listen to second episode tonight.
DeleteMay I have a rant??
ReplyDeleteI am just getting the evening meal going and deciding what my Saturday TV viewing will be.
There is nothing worth watching for my taste (apart from The Ashes highlights). Does anyone have the same problem, or is it just me?
I don't have Sky or similar, so just get very frustrated as to the lack of something decent to watch. I will have to look at what I have recorded to find something suitable.
Rant Over!!
We always record programmes and plan our viewing accordingly.
DeleteThank God we have sky. Just got a new telly last weekend so we can now get ITVX. On normal tv decent progs are few and far between. Then if there is something good on it usually clashes with something else. Saturday night is midsomer murders night in our house. Can’t beat it.
ReplyDeleteIf anyone gets ITVX we’ve just watched a six parter called “ a confession”. It was excellent. Based on a true story.
But can you get rid of the adverts? Like CC we regularly record programmes , especially those on commercial channels, and watch when we want to rather than when they are scheduled
DeleteAh but adverts means there’s time for Mr to go make a cuppa!!!
DeleteOnly if you are prepared to pay for it.
ReplyDeleteWe do just this for ITVX and it makes such a difference to dramas especially. We don’t record programmes either watch live, or stream.
DeleteI prefer to record then watch, as have a button on my remote to skip ads with just a couple of presses. This is done on my internet TV box so no need to pay - well just yet, that is.
DeleteThis still shows the old ITV hub app.icon, but when load it, it is ITVX.
I am in the place - if it's not broke, then don't fix it. My set-up suits me as I record in HD.
Cross today as my wi-fi (so internet), went down whilst listening to TA omnibus, but it came back on a few hours later.
I only mention this as I could not find any contact 'phone nos on paper, to then try to sort.
The first thing I did when it came back on, was to look up and write down several contact 'phone numbers, so have them for another time.
My back-up plan was to go to a neighbour, ask to log in via their wi-fi, to find then these. Luckily I didn't need to do.
We have been watching the Congress investigation into UAPS/UFOS and the compelling evidence being given to it by high ranking witnesses/whistleblowers who are arguing for more transparency. It would seem that the Pentagon and intelligence agencies have been withholding information from Congress. Sometimes it no doubt suits governments to use the ufo interest as a cover for their latest defence/attack craft developments, ( my daughter saw one years ago, very big, totally quiet with the ability to fly very low and very slowly and it frightened her silly until common sense kicked in, and we later learned that the Americans had brought a craft to St Mawgan and were test flying it at night over this area) but the things spoken of now in Congress seem to have technological abilities beyond our present capabilities. Interesting stuff. Reverse engineering ? or do we simply have some really brilliant scientists and engineers with their work kept under wraps?
ReplyDeleteJanice - all sounds very interesting.
DeleteI do have a belief that we are being ‘ watched ‘ and possibly visited, but I’m not particularly passionate about it.
In the very early 80s I was in a relationship for a few months with a man
Timothy Goode, who was then at the beginning of his career as an authority on the subject. He has since published a number of books on the subject.
At the time he was still the lead violinist with the LSO - so for those few months we were together I had many opportunities to hear live classical performances as well as attending rehearsals.
I see from his present profile that his major interest is now his UFO writings.
Mrs P. You should write a book about your life...it always sounds so interesting, fascinating and bet would be a really good read! I'd buy it..
DeleteOh Miriam - if I had even just a pound for every time anyone has said that to me I’d be well on the way to being a lot richer than I am.
DeleteYou had a very interesting boyfriend Mrs P. I haven't read any of his books yet but am wondering if he had had some kind of direct experience that set him on that path. It would be nice for him if the Congress committee confirms some of the things he has been writing about.
DeleteI am thinking that this investigative committee must have had some kind of clearance from the Pentagon, and if so are they deliberately drip feeding the public to get us used to the idea. Just thinking aloud here.
Back in the 90's something went overhead here at a speed I had never seen before and one of our jets went screaming overhead after it but couldn't touch it for speed. Whatever it was went down in the sea and a Naval carrier appeared there the next day and stayed there with a lot of activity for a few days. I suppose missiles can travel very fast and maybe it was some kind of practice exercise for the jet pilot, but the Naval carrier seemed to be looking for something.
I haven’t read any of his books either Janice.
DeleteI met TG when he gave a short lecture at my local library and we chatted at the end, and he invited me to a concert.
At the time I was a single parent and wasn’t about to refuse a free ticket to a concert at the Festival Hall.
I have to admit that I was far more enamoured of his musical career than of his UFO interests, and I did get a lot of music in those few months both in London and around the UK. I was often accompanied to London concerts by his best friend who was a solicitor without a partner and continued to be his ‘spare’ for many years after.
Reading some of T Gs reviews of his books in the last few days I have to agree with many, that although his research is forensic, he is, and was in my opinion, a polemicist to the core without any real foundation for his beliefs.
That does not mean that I am an unbeliever.
I’m sure ‘ they ‘ are out there and that they are probably watching us.
I do also believe that governments across the world are frightened of allowing what is known to be made public.
But in the long run it’s not a subject I have any particular interest in.
I am interested that you saw an incident as you say in the 90s.
A friend and I, when in my garden quite recently saw, very high up in the sky, an extremely close formation of three aircraft leaving a trail above, and at such speed when as high as that planes usually seem to be moving rather slowly.
We searched the internet for some information and could find nothing.
Sarnia. How are you and how did things go?
ReplyDeleteIt was overwhelming, Miriam, and such a change of family circumstance for me that it's too much to take in all at once. I'm not ready to describe it yet, but thank you so much for asking.
DeleteWhat a magical end to the Ashes series. A fairytale ending for Stuart Broad, his last bat scoring a 6 and his last bowl actually winning the 5th test. With all his family and fans watching it was wonderful to see his delighted reaction. What a magnificent way to end his career.
ReplyDeleteIf only it hadn’t rained all day at Old Trafford we could, and should, have won the series and the Ashes back.
I think Ben Stokes has done a great job in restoring audience interest in Test Matches. They are more exciting to watch these days.
I haven't been 'up to scratch' lately as my leg have broken into blisters but as it was Chris birthday they spent the time with me so I didn't have T MS on. We went in the evening to an Italian restaurant then came home to see 'The Escape Room' Both of which my granddaughter wanted ! Just as we went to turn TV off we found out that they did it ! Even though my usual time of 10.00 we both wanted to watch it.
ReplyDeleteIt was fantastic but I think that Broad upset the batsman with altering the bails. Think it might be a problem in the future !
By the way the BBC are stopping TMS on longwave next year (and too the 'shipping forecast) and will be on digital etc. Actually I think they will be giving up the longwave frequency altogether !
We listen to 5 live sports extra to the cricket on the TV otherwise we listen to medium wave.
Family have now gone to St Albans for a few days to meet up with Uni friends then on Sunday travelling to Hatterheim-am-Maine ! Just about packed .
'usual time of 10.00 bedtime ,'
DeleteYes, you are right Spicy. The Beeb have said they will be switching off long wave altogether because maintenance of the transmitters has become too expensive. We are unhappy with this decision because we only get very poor FM here, being down in a bit of a valley and we have to have the radio in exactly the right place, facing a certain way with the aerial Sticking out horizontally! DAB is much better but we can’t get it in the kitchen - walls too thick!
DeleteYet another miserable day. Constant rain. I’m now getting worried about how I’m going to empty my water butts before winter instead of the worry of them being nearly empty.
ReplyDeleteDelivery of winter log supply coming at lunch time. Luckily they are totally covered because they won’t be getting put in the log store today. Mr PtbY normally barrows them to me and I stack them. (I’m a bit of a control freak when it comes to the stacking!) but this year he’ll have to do it all. I’m going to go out when this happens so I’m not tempted to step in. Lol
Why do you need to empty the water butts before winter PtbY ?
DeleteGenuine question …..I’m intrigued
I empty them so it isn’t stood stagnant all winter and so they don’t freeze and crack the water butts. An older/wiser friend told me that’s what you do so I just do as he says.
DeleteDoesn’t anyone else empty them?
Ptby - we have never emptied our water butt (except when using it for watering plants in dry weather) and it has never frozen. It is placed on bricks and against the outside kitchen wall where the drainpipe is, so maybe it is protected from the worst of winter weather.
DeleteI’m still not well !
ReplyDeleteYesterday I felt more like myself, but still a bit wobbly and lightheaded.
I am continuing with the medication, but whatever virus I’ve got, it hasn’t yet run it’s course.
Not really complaining….. just a bit fed up.
Still there is always a silver lining.
Friend has now taken Lady on several walks up on North Hill with his dog Mischa and they have been companionable together.
Lady has always been very responsive to men. When out for our walks she always makes a beeline for any men about, whether they have a dog or not.
Now she seems to be behaving very differently with Simon than she behaves with me. She is apparently asking him if she can go off independently ( ie rabbiting ) and if he says no, she doesn’t. She never asks me, just goes,
I’m wondering if it’s because she is less confident with him as, with me, she has always been confident because I’ve allowed her freedom without consent.
Poor Mrs P. Wish there was something I could do!
ReplyDeletePS: auditioned for a part in 'Blithe Spirit' on Monday. Not expecting to get it, but if you have no expectations auditions are great fun.
ReplyDeleteGood luck Sarnia
DeleteHow kind. Thank you.
DeletePtbY, I don't empty my water butts. I just put a bit of Jeyes Fluid in at the beginning of winter and have never had any problems.
ReplyDeleteI wish it would stop raining - my toilet seat's gone mouldy.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣
DeleteSo far, so lucky weatherwise. I woke up to rain and everything very wet, but then blue skies and sunshine. It's been a day of sun, light clouds, warm and humid, with no sign of rain or the predicted storms, well just that is.
ReplyDeleteGood news from OZ today.
ReplyDeleteAbout 3-4 weeks ago my niece was made redundant with no notice (not sure if said this here).
She has just accepted a new job, which is perfect for her, apart from a cut in salary.
She is now the product manager for a firm supplying high class hats, only a 20 min drive away from her home.
She is perfect for this due to her previous experience, as at one time she was a hat/accesories designer for the fashion firm Helen Kaminiski and has always worked in fashion.
It means her wonderful life, with hubbie + sons in their lovely Queensland home, can carry on as normal.
DeleteAP Thought of you today, re the Scout Jamboree with a grandson(?) in S. Korea. I believe there have been awful rain + floods which is affecting it. Hopefully all will be well and the experience will still be, just that. 😀
ReplyDeleteYes there were terrible floods last week. Several divers were killed when a motorway tunnel flooded and the vehicles couldn’t drive out. The drivers just drowned in their cars!
DeleteBut haven’t heard any adverse news yet so 🤞
Although still feeling rotten, I’ve actually achieved something today.
ReplyDeleteI firmed up my design for the upper terrace of my garden. No colours yet but the basics down on paper.
I’ve bought a bead wristlet for friend Simons daughter who is 20 tomorrow. She is neuro divergent and went and got herself a job last week. This was a huge step forward for her and she is enjoying being allowed to use the washing up machine.
Says she can’t use the coffee machine yet but “ I’ve been watching the others and I’m looking forward to doing it “
So today I’ve stitched a tiny silk bag to put the wrist band in.
And I’ve taken Lady to the park…. Very s..l..o..w..l..y, picking some blackberries on the way.
Simple things but after over a week of achieving nothing, an improvement.
Very pleased to hear that you have made some progress MrP. Here's hoping that it continues 🤞
DeleteGet well soon 💐
DeleteThat must be such a relief. It's so good to have a friend like Simon in the background, knowing there's someone 'in the wings' so to speak.
ReplyDeleteGlad you are back safely and survived the funeral.
DeleteIt was a whirlwind, Janice. I've got most of the rest of my family back. There were nephews I hadn't seen for 35 years or more - all these men now in their 60s and I didn't know who they were. I've never been hugged so much in one day, and so anxious to try and make up for their mother's mischief-making. The sister-in-law wasn't told i was coming, and her face when I reached out and touched her hand as she left the chapel changed from frail, tearful bereavement to slate-faced dislike in the blink of an eye. John and I were the two most alike in the family, so to suddenly see his face after his funeral must have been a most unpleasant shock.
ReplyDeleteI am still estranged from their children, but one of the sons lives in Wales not far from my son and his partner knows my daughter-in-law, so I'm leaving that side of things to his well-honed diplomatic skills.
There was no invitation to refreshments, and I doubt they all went their separate ways to watch repeats of Coronation Street, so one can only assume that the rest of us were simply not invited. Certainly her sister and extensive family were firmly placed at the front of the chapel, so that all her husband's relatives had to sit at the back. Nephew no 3 laid on 4**** refreshments at his amazing hotel.
Do remember that I'm the villain of the piece here and far too evil to be admitted to the bosom of my family!
The flights there and back were also full of surprises, but that's enough from me for now.
ReplyDeleteThat was quite an experience Sarnia and so glad some family members wereready with their hugs and apologies, and that you did get to say goodbye 🌹 to your brother. When you feel up to it the flights scenarios will be looked out for!
DeleteA bitter sweet occasion Sarnia and an adventure by the sound of it. Looking forward to the next instalment when you're ready.
DeleteI’ve been out today for two hours and I’m exhausted !
ReplyDeleteI needed to collect a bracelet which I had ordered for my friends daughter. I drove there, about a mile, and then back into town to pick up my bread and have a coffee and one of my bakers chestnut sausage rolls, sat and chatted, then back home.
I had taken Lady for a very short trip along the lane before I went.
I had hoped to be able to deliver the gift and walk the Blue Anchor beach later, but fear I won’t have the energy.
No headache so far today, but very depleted.
I am realising I am old !
You've been unwell. Mrs P. It tends to have that effect. I'mm sure you'll pick up, as you seem to be doing really well. Probably expecting too much of yourself so soon.
ReplyDeleteHope you soon feel much better Mrs. P.
ReplyDeleteDoes anyone else catch sight of themselves unexpectedly and think 'poor old soul' or similar, only to realise the ancient wreck is in fact themselves? It happens to me a lot, always a shock to see myself as others do.
Sarnia, so glad you got to say goodbye to your brother, it must have taken a lot to go into the lion's den. Was it in Guernsey? If so, was the flight by Aurigny? I have had a couple of hair-raising flights with them in the past.
Couldn’t agree more Mistral 😂 to you poor old soul comment!
DeleteWe booked with Aurigny but got transferred to Blue Island fir the evening flight as they work together. The weather conditions can be hair-raising at times. I remember when I used to fly back and forth as a student that i would sometimes arrive back at campus in North London hours later still a strange shade of pale green.
ReplyDeleteI can imagine, Sarnia. i once had such a ghastly flight to Guernsey that I felt compelled to speak to a stewardess. she said that the pilots would always make every effort to get home, despite the weather!!
DeleteMistral…. I catch sight of myself and think it’s my mother looking at me, when she was in her 80’s. It was awful crossing at the traffic lights to go to Lidl and seeing myself all the way in the reflection of their windows hobbling along with a stick.
ReplyDeleteHad my 7 week post op check up with surgeon yesterday. All well. Can at last bend legs and get rid of the dreaded raised toilet seat. Celebrated by going to the pub, walking there with no sticks! It wasn’t far and I was slow, concentrating on walking correctly and not limping.
Then had a lovely comfy night, at last, sat on the sofa in pj’s with my leg bent up and sat cross legged with a cushion under for support for a bit. Getting back to normality at last.
Pleased to hear that your recovery is going well PtbY.
DeleteI know that awful feeling when catching sight of yourself in a shop window PtbY. Been happening to me for a few years now especially since my walking has deteriorated and I’m back on 2 sticks. But very glad you are able to do more and get out and about.
DeleteJust avoid looking in shop windows!
Archerphile did you have 1 or 2 hips done overtime? I remember one about 4 or 5 yrs ago has it (or them) deteriorated over time or trouble with the supporting surrounding muscles if so would re starting the exercises help you? Such a shame you are back to 2 sticks but if that keeps you safe that is the main thing 🙏🏼
DeleteI am feeling extremely irritated. I have just received my car insurance reminder, & I knew it would be going up as I managed to get done for speeding last year, twice 3 months apart 🥺 so actually surprised it hadn’t gone up as much as I expected. Then I thought “When is my road tax due?” I haven’t received the V11 reminder through the post, and of course there is no disc to check any more. So I go online & realise it was due on the first of August! Arrghhh, obviously I paid it immediately but I am liable for an £80 fine. Apparently the V11 notification is a courtesy & the 5 days grace got removed along with the paper discs. I am fuming, if they sent a email reminder in addition to relying on the Royal Mail which the government has allowed to be run into the ground I would be less upset. I always check the post carefully before putting the junk mail into the recycling so I am positive that the letter idn’t arrive.
ReplyDeleteThe garage I use always sends me a reminder when my MOT is due, I et emails & texts from my insurance provider…Reminder going onto my ipad calendar now!
Rant over but still peeved. Hope everyone else is feeling better, good to hear that PTBY is on the mend & that Sarnia is home safely.
I think you will be fine, as sorted so quickly and efficiently. 🫰
DeleteI bet a genuine mistake is obvious and there will be no consequences. On thinking back, my reminder has always come on paper, via the post. Has this now changed, I wonder.
We get email notifications from DVLA whenever our road tax is due and you can opt for it to be paid automatically, if you give your bank details. I know not everyone is comfortable with this method but at least it means we never forget to pay it.
DeleteI feel peeved for you KP I’m sure you should have received a car tax reminder could have been “lost” in the post especially as a daily delivery is not the norm now (well not here anyway)
ReplyDelete2 speeding tickets in 3 months oh dear KP 🫢 as you are fairly local to me where did you get caught same place each time or different areas? I heard of someone some time ago who got done twice in one day going through Heath End Farnham to and from the large Tesco store in Aldershot and no it was not me but that day may yet be to come 😳
Miriam - you were right about conditions in South Korea. We have just heard the British Scouts have been pulled off the campsite and transferred to hotels. There is extreme heat and many are falling ill. The S. Korea gov’mnt is sending help, ambulances, food and water and taking the worst affected to hospital. There is a full and frightening report on the BBC news website. Apparently toilet and shower conditions are awful and not safe. Griff is terribly disappointed and what was supposed to be the (very expensive) trip of a lifetime is turning into a nightmare.
ReplyDeleteThank you Global Warming !
I wish him well. At least you have heard something, as I believe communications are not good at the moment. Thank Goodness he is now safe in a hotel. My previous comment came from The Guardian with pictures, showing some of the campdite was flooded.
DeleteI also was concerned for your grandson when I read the news AP such a shame but thank goodness Griff is safe right now.
ReplyDeleteOn a totally and different diverse topic.
ReplyDeleteAs a youngster, I remember a lovely book, with coloured photos, showing the events of our late Queen's Coronation and recall looking at it much later in life. No idea what happened to it though, but it just disappeared.
After experiencing the latest Coronation (the 1st in my life-time), I have today ordered such a book with all the official photos, and what occured, starting on the day of accession.
This is from the Buckingham Palce official shop web-site, and I hope it is similar to the one I remember so well.
I just thought I would mention this, in case of interest to others, in marking this moment in modern history.
To add, I have an interesting book which I bought in one of the Jubilee's - think 40th.
DeleteIt is Life in 1953, showing things like kitchen appliances, the life of the house-wife and caring for a family etc.etc. Fascinating, though I remember things the same when just a child.
Archerphile It is a very sorry state of affairs andI am so disappointed for the Scouts whatever the nationality but especially for our Scouts. My Group has 2 Scouts from Gillingham District and a Leader from our Group as well.
ReplyDeleteThey have been fundraising for about two years with hosting qutz nights, Indian meals at restaurants, cake sales and of course raffles.
I hope the temperature drops down a bit.
I did see the fields they were in and thought " but there aren't any trees !" Not an ideal camp site.
Hopefully the English adults have allowed them some leeway in taking the Scouts off the sites and ,hopefully, into air conditioned hotels.
My daughter, a Scout leader herself, says she is very sorry for all the helpers that have gone out with the Scouts and have the massive job of looking after all the youngsters and trying to organise help. They have given up their summers and paid £4000 each to go to Korea.
DeleteThe whole event is very bad publicity for the S. Korean government too, who are trying to establish the country as a venue for big world events like Olympics and World Cups.
It's the unfortunate weather systems, which no-one could predict nor prevent.
DeleteIt's heartwarming though that, the UK leaders are sorting things out, and in such a satisfactury way.
I worry about others who are not being so lucky.
Road tax
ReplyDeleteSome time after we lost our round discs showing that our cars were taxed, I too over ran one year.
I was advised to pay my road tax monthly as a DD which means that it is never out of date.
Not sure how much by, but it does cost a little more, but only by a few pounds.
For me it’s been worthwhile.
I put when the road tax is due on the month on our calendar at the beginning of the year. I also write on MOT due dates, insurances due, boiler servicing and chimney sweeping. Then when you flip it over you know what needs doing that month.
ReplyDeleteEsscee…..lovely pic for your profile.
PtbY - That was Penny, an Orange roan cocker spaniel, who we adopted from her breeder, age 6. She lived with us until her death at 11 years old. She was the best dog we ever had, so much so that she has spoilt us for having another yet. We will, I’m sure get another dog one day but not sure when.
DeleteWhat a day ☔️💦☔️ but it is Summer of course so only to be expected 🫢
ReplyDeleteSuch a shame for events weddings etc though - my neighbour is going to a Care Home Summer Party and then onto a 60th birthday “do” with gazebos at the ready in the garden complete with caterers re food etc. just might get a better couple of hours mid afternoon 🤞🏼seems like everything will need to be moved inside though.
Yes, Lady R, the rain here has been torrential for the past half hour. Every time a car passes our house, we get a massive wave of water down our lounge windows as they plough (much too fast) through the floods. It’s like being in a ship at sea!
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ReplyDeleteOutward flight on the Monday evening, 'touch and go' as my son's train from Wales was delayed by an hour due to the perennial school holiday boredom-reliever of throwing concrete blocks on the line. Apparently our pilot is known for taking an interest in his passengers, so before take off he described the route he would take and the landmarks to look out for on which side of the plane. I hadn't been back since my last trip with Mr S in 2018 and thought it unlikely that I would be returning in the foreseeable future, and at the sound of the beloved names - the Casquets lighthouse, Sark, Herm, Jethou, the tears streamed down my face. The next thing I knew, the pilot was squatting beside me, holding my hand and asking what was wrong. My son said i was going to a funeral, so he asked about that. I also told him that it was my first visit since 2018, the year before my husband died. His words were very gentle and comforting - all SO unexpected.
It was the same pilot on the way back the following evening (he does 6 return trips a day, and describes himself as a glorified bus driver). He saw me while addressing the throng and came to ask how the funeral went (he noted that I was even in the same seat). I showed him the rather beautiful Order of Service and he looked at it for a long time. On reaching Southampton we waited until last to disembark,as I'm very slow and awkward in such a confined space and it gives them time to bring the wheelchair. When I reached the little flight of steps my gallant Captain was waiting. He took my coat and held out a hand for me to hold as I descended. To be honest, it would have been easier to hold both handrails, but as it would have been churlish in the extreme to decline such a charming gesture, I let him be my 'knight in shining armour'! I said, 'Every time you come in to land from this direction you fly right over my house', to which he replied in all seriousness, 'We don't charge any extra for that'.
His kindness was the icing on the cake of what turned out to be a huge reversal in my family fortunes: he was probably fortyish, about the same age as my children so I must have reminded him of his own mother.
I am no longer the tail-ender of a family to which I never really belonged, but regarded as a 'big sister' by the next generation, the eldest of whom still on the Island is but 11 years younger than me. My son plans further visits with me by air, rather than the tortuous ferry journey from Poole insisted upon by my husband. Hope we get the same pilot!
What a lovely heartwarming story. How kind of the pilot to take the time with you .
DeleteSarnia, how lovely. I hope you and your son return many times with the same airline, they sound great, and much less scary than the local one I used.
DeleteBlue Islands, Mistral, and they work in tandem with Aurigny but it's a very odd relationship: there were flights from both airlines due out at the same time, but my son booked with Aurigny because it was cheaper. However, there was actually only the one plane, which we were put on anyway, even though we hadn't paid the more expensive fare!
DeleteThat's ery Guernseyigic!
That's very Guernsey logic.
DeleteSounds great to me!
DeleteHas anybody got suggestions ( not rude, please) for what I can do with a bunch of very large beetroots?
ReplyDeleteThey came in a bargain box of fruit and veg Mr A got at Lidl yesterday. A crate containing: 2 different types of lettuce, an aubergine, a courgette, a cucumber, a head of celery, a large bag of organic carrots a bag of Braeburn Apples, an avocado and this bunch of beetroot. All for £1.50!!
I have boiled the beetroot and they are sitting in the pan of water, but what do I do with them now?
Borscht maybe, or I have made fritters (containing feta as well I think) Riverford veg boxes have lots of good recipes on their website.
DeleteAbsolutely tipping down in my corner of Hampshire, & forecast to continue along with some thunder well into the evening. I pity those at the Wickham Festival this weekend.
Thanks KP. I’ll look up those recipies. Not sure about borscht, but it might be nice as a cold soup drizzled with cream?
DeleteArcherphile, I do a lovely traybake, on BBC Goodfood website, 'Roasted Root Veg Traybake' by Elena Silcock. I use beetroot as one of several veg, it adds a lovelt flavour. I dont bother with the nuts and seeds though.
DeleteAnd if too much to eat at once slice and pickle in hot malt vinegar with a bit of soft brown sugar added. I really like beetroot but don't seem to have much luck growing it. Planted some seeds last year and they must have gone down to Australia,
DeleteAs Janice has said, pickle it in kilner jars. It lasts for ages and great in salads.
DeleteI do a beetroot salad - olive oil, balsamic vinegar, garlic and thyme/mace..but all cooked together to get the flavours to then let it go cold.
Sis has a recipe for a casserole which has beetroot in it, called somthething like red velvet casserole...
I'm not a great fan of carrot cake but the Riverford recipe produces a cake that even I like. They say it works well with beetroot too - I'm prepared to take their word for it!
DeleteMy mum made a courgette cake of all things. It actually tasted pretty good - and I like courgettes even less than I like beetroot.
Beetroots also make good compost.
Mistral, I've suddenly realised why your Aurigny flight was so scary. It must have been in the days of the Norman-Britten Trislander aircraft, tiny little things, about 20 passengers, 10 down each side with an open cockpit and mailbags or bundles of newspapers under your seat. If you weren't used to flying they were quite an experience.
ReplyDeleteWhen Flybe went bust Aurigny got bigger aircraft so they now fly Dorniers and ATRs like everyone else!
Sarnia, yes, you are right! I loved the tiny aircraft but not in (seemingly) gale force winds, being thrown around, made Alton Towers seem tame:) I still managed to be a frequent flyer though, but it's a long time since i flew there. My son now lives in Jersey and I catch the ferry, but I must say I prefer Guernsey, happy memories. I think St. Peter Port is one of the prettiest places to visit. Followed by Sark.
DeleteDid you ever get to fly in G-JOEY and receive a certificate? That's something we never managed, much to my children's disappointment. When the Trislanders were taken out of service there was outrage when Aurigny were going to have him broken up. Funds were raised to save him and he is now suspended in mid-air in a museum at the Oatlands Heritage complex. There was always great excitement when a Trislander was heard flying over our house, and everyone would go rushing out to see if it was JOEY! We have all the JOEY adventure books by one of the pilots - not well-written but the illustrations are hilarious.
DeleteAhh, Sarnia, no I never did, But I did see him:)
DeleteThe last time I went to Guernsey was when they did the Donkey Trail (1st time) we loved doing that.
AP Red Velvet Casserole of Beef
ReplyDelete1lb (450g) cooked beetroot.
Grated rind + juice of 1 large orange.
1 tablespoon sugar
2-3 cloves garlic
1 1/2 to 2lb (775g to 900g) best stewing beef
1oz (25g) butter or equivalent
30ml olive oil
two heaped teaspoons ground ginger
1 tablespoon plain flour
5 fl.oz ( 150g) fresh soured cream (only for serving).
salt + black pepper to taste.
1/2 pint (300ml) water
Whiz beetroot, orange juice + rind, sugar, garlic + water in liquidiser.
Chop meat into cubes and brown in olive oil + butter in a suitable casserole or pan. Add ginger, remove from heat + stir in flour.
Add the beetroot mix, bring up heat and put into a casserole dish and cook for 2-1/2 hours at about 140C, gas mark 2 or 3 and season to taste.
Freezes well .
To serve, add soured cream, if wanted.
Cook time 2hrs plus..it's one that does well on a long slow cook.
DeleteTo add, not sure about the tablespoon of sugar. It is what the recipe says, but sounds far too much to me, but that's as to my taste. Personally would use just a teaspoon...but tgen I don't have a "sweet tooth".
DeleteYou people eat BEETROOT???? It's disgusting!! Even the smell of it cooking traumatises my intestines - it smells of boiled earth. Yuk, or as we say in Guernsey, Boudyax!
ReplyDeleteLove beetroot, but hate and detest cheese, even its smell!
DeleteStrange how different our tastes and likes/dislikes are.
Thank you everyone for your great ideas for beetroot.
DeleteMy first thought was simply to put it in a jar of vinegar for salads (I regularly buy picked beetroot anyway). But some of these other ideas sound wonderful.
Thank you Miriam for writing out the whole beef and beetroot recipe, sounds magnificent!
And I have found recipe for a chocolate cake cooked with beetroot too
I am going to be busy!
Lady R and CC: flight report at 12.38pm (behind the beetroot, which was far more interesting!).
ReplyDeleteThank you for pointing that out Sarnia, so lovely to hear such a kind hearted story. I'm so glad that you shared it with us.
DeleteCurrently in Edinburgh on childcare duties for a 3yr old and 18 month old. Having been sat on, jumped on and spent a lot of time playing on the floor I've been pleased with the way that the hip has held up. Haven't read the other blog as I haven't caught up with last night yet.
ReplyDeleteArcherfile, I like roast beetroot, parsnips, leeks, walnuts and sage with honey and balsamic vinegar. We always roast beetroot rather than boil and find that it peels more easily while still warm. Any that's left over we usually eat tossed in a vinaigrette.
Roast the beetroot in chunks with other root veg and have it as a warm salad.
ReplyDeleteThanks again everyone for the multitude of beetroot ideas, I never realised there were so many things to do with them. I might even try growing some next year!
ReplyDeleteQuick update on grandson in South Korea - daughter managed to get a short video call with him today. He had been taken ill with heat exhaustion and multiple mosquito bites yesterday, but said he was well looked after in a makeshift medical facility. He feels better today and has been taken to a hotel in Seoul with other British Scouts. They are waiting to be allocated rooms. Nobody knows what will happen for the rest of their stay or what activities might be arranged.
Thank goodness your grandson is safe and being cared for AP but what an awful awful
Deleteoutcome to what was to be a wonderful and momentous experience.
Sarnia thank you so much for your flight(s) post. It has made my day what a wonderful man your pilot was friendly, compassionate and informative, and so glad for you that he should be so on such an important and emotional occasion. Do hope you get to fly with him again!
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DeleteBeetroot is a superfood, and I don’t eat enough of it although I love it.
ReplyDeleteI remember it often being boiled in my mothers kitchen, and yet I don’t remember it being grown on my father’s allotment, which seems to me now, strange.
I never much liked the smell of it cooking, and it was always drowned in vinegar.
Why ?
And only ever eaten with/ as salad.
Many decades later we became friends with a couple and she was Polish. She taught me to serve beetroot hot as a vegetable with a white sauce, a revelation to me.
Now I’m frequently eating beetroot as both sons in law cook with it, usually roasted and with skin on.
I tend to cook a single bulb to eat with cold meat or as a salad ingredient.
Over recent days, not eating anything, I’ve been thinking back to when my girls were small and I fed them with a macrobiotic ethos. ( I’m not sure that phase lasted very long ) these memories were kicked off by a friend writing about her day out with family to Bristol and visiting St Martins market, where I used to buy my grains.
I used to make huge bowls of grain and vegetable salads for parties and picnics, but couldn’t remember the ingredients that I used beyond red or white cabbage.
So I trawled some recipes on line and now I have a list of ingredients and intend (?) to try to eat better than I have in recent years. This includes grating raw beetroot into my salads - think carrot and beetroot together .
And NO VINEGAR !
I can find no motivation to cook for myself alone, clearly a huge gap in my self esteem. I think that for me, cooking is an act of love, or nurturing of another, and obviously I’m not worthy.
I remember as a young woman I consciously ate well in order to lay down good health in my old age. Now here I am in my ‘ old age’ and not eating at all well.
I must change.
I ended up using my Lidl veg box beetroot to make a thick soup with garlic and a horseradish cream swirled through. To be honest, I enjoyed the taste of the horseradish more than the beetroot!
DeleteMy daughter told me medical studies have found that drinking beetroot juice daily helps keep blood pressure down, which would be good for me. I obediently bought a carton of beetroot juice (expensive) but couldn’t stand the taste. Mixing it with some orange juice might have helped.
I can identify with that Mrs P. You may have gathered that I am much more interested in airoplanes than in cooking for one.
ReplyDeleteI always spell it aeroplanes with an 'e', but my phone corrected it. To me the word looks wrong with an 'i' in it, so I stand by my convictions:
ReplyDeleteAeroplanes!!
Article in the Mail online today about the scouts jamboree. It sounds horrific. 🤞 for Griff.
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