Proud to be Yorkshire.April 24, 2024 at 1:55 PM It’s doing ok MrsP thanks. I’m having to put antibiotic cream in 4 times a day so seem to have cloudy vision most of the day out of it. I’m not very good at doing nothing though. Desperate to get back into the garden
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AmbridgesMrsPApril 24, 2024 at 3:54 PM Be patient- your time out in the garden will come soon. Your eye is more important !
I’m actually doing some gardening today, and managed some yesterday too.
Has anybody else been watching the developments with the military horses running amok in central London today ? Although I realise the awful danger to both horses and public, not forgetting vehicles damaged, I have to say that I find it utterly thrilling to see horses galloping riderless through central London. Makes me think of my dad who started his working life at thirteen taking
Makes me think of my dad who started his working life at thirteen taking newspapers from Fleet Street to Paddington Station and being in charge of a team of horses pulling the load. In later years he became a mounted soldier, and every year after watching the Royal Tournament we had to visit the stables at the back of Earls Court to admire the horses. Once I was an adult, my daughters were put through the same routine.
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Cheshire CheeseApril 24, 2024 at 4:16 PM Seeing those horses reminded me of when Mr CC and I were in a riding club decades ago. We visited Greater Manchester Police's stables once and were put to work in the indoor arena making a lot of noise as part of the horses' training for them to get used to it. it made me wonder if military horses don't do that training as they are now purely ceremonial. One of the main things I remember about that visit was that those stables were the cleanest I'd ever seen!
MiriamApril 24, 2024 at 2:58 PM I was lucky today. I shopped in the big S/bury's about 6 miles away and found a pair of jeans which looked good. I tried them on quickly, as had to leave my trolley outside. On leaving the changing room I, for some reason , ooked back. On the floor was my car key card which had obviously fallen out of the pocket from the jeans, I was wearing. As said very lucky to spot it. Still shop was good with savings of £21 eg toothpaste I use half-price, fish less than half-price, garden stuff 3 for price of 2.. I did well.
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Cheshire CheeseApril 24, 2024 at 4:18 PM Did you buy the jeans Miriam?
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MiriamApril 24, 2024 at 4:25 PM Yes. Perfect fit and just £16. I bought blue but sadly not a
29 PM ...not a black pair of same style + size. I tried another style, but didn't like and fit wasn't as good. I might just order on-line as can to click + collect nearby. My problem is size, as still buy a 10!! 🤣🤣
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Sarnia April 24, 2024 at 5:56 PM You lucky thing, Miriam! Sainsbury's jeans are a mystery to me, as in my size the waist comes up under my armpits and the legs are a foot too long. In the next size down the same complaints would apply - except I can't get them over my hips!
Photo of Winchester cathedral nave, once the longest in Europe, not sure if that is still the case. Amazing acoustics, my elder daughter attended school in Winchester and the end of term services were held in the cathedral, the nine lessons and carols were lovely. Hope MrsP has a fantastic day, it’s sunny at the moment, I would have liked to suggest meeting up but am busy all day.
And to add, Winchester cathedral was built on a high water table and has often flooded. Around the turn of the last century the south and west sides of the building were subsiding and in danger of collapse. A diver called William Walker was sent down into the foundations, in one of those old fashioned diving suits with a big brass helmet and he managed to shore up the foundations. A very brave man, he saved the cathedral. There is a statue of him in the cathedral wearing his diving suit.
AP, one day when I was very small (under 5) we were driving past part of St Peter Port harbour at low tide when a diver in one of those suits bobbed up out of the water. I saw the enormous helmet, had no idea what it was and was terrified.
I was hoping to do some jobs in the garden today, every time I went out it started to rain. When I went inside and started something else the sun came out. It's been a frustrating day. I'm off to the dentist tomorrow. I broke a tooth last Friday and had a temporary filling done and was given an appointment for tomorrow for a new filling. What's the betting it will be fine!
Well ……….. it was a day out…… as my mum would have said. It didn’t look too bad as we set off passing through Somerset Dorset Wiltshire - past Stonehenge ! - and into Hampshire. Still dry but cold on arrival and stayed cold. I had no intention whatsoever to do any shopping other than to exchange some knickers in M&S. I arrived home with various carrier bags overflowing. But in the case of two purchases I was given a couple of pounds discount through chatting. I saw the Cathedral from the edge of the grounds and admired all the older architecture, but by the time the rain started, only drizzle but cold with it! And my ankle had given out I spent the last forty five minutes sitting in a bus shelter. Good conversation with a fellow traveller though. Not a bad day, and I will look forward to returning after my operation when I hope to be in possession of two working ankles. ( the legs are still excellent ! ) Yes KP, next time. And I’m flattered that my excursion has elicited such a magnificent photographic header. Thank you.
Very glad to hear news of your trip Mrs P, thought of you on and off throughout the day (especially with regard to your dodgy ankle!) hopefully your next visit will be even better and KP will be free to meet up for a coffee. For me right now that would not be an option of course but all of us other Hampshire Hogs would be with you in spirit. When is your op?
Not just the market, but lots of independent shops too. Not surprising really, as it’s a city and a major Hampshire Hub.
With regards to my ankle, I’m finding now that overdoing it on one day means that I suffer for the following two days. I’m in agony when moving around this morning, and close to tears last night.
I'm so sorry to hear that your ankle is giving you so much pain. It really saddens me to think that so many people are sitting on waiting lists suffering and unable to get on with their lives.
Thanks CC. Most of the time I am getting on with my life and pushing through the pain, continuing to walk daily. But I’m not my best friend, as I choose to live in places where it’s not the easiest terrain, ie flat ! And the beach is not much better as though walking on sand is good for the legs it is very hard going on dry sand and therefore harder on the ankles. When the tide is out and the wet or damp sand is available I am able to walk well. I’ve been waiting for almost all of the time I’ve lived here, nearly two years now, for an elderly gentleman, a local upholsterer, to do my day bed. He had to wait for his first hip repair and is still waiting for the second. Unable to continue working while he waits. And probably not being active in other ways while he waits. Millions like him !
Well Done Mrs P. It seems you had a grand day, even though it was slightly curtailed. I so admire you for going onwards and upwards. What a strong person you are 👏
Frost on car again this morning at 7.00am 😱 I was talking to some-one yesterday about April 2020 in Lockdown and memories. What we both said was how lovely, sunny + warm it was, so all were out in gardens, in spring wear!
How I wish I had kept a journal of that awful time, as to life had to adapt for what became 2yrs in total. How lucky we were here, as to our own DID choices and why, which so helped and was brilliant.
Oh, Miriam, and here am I doing my best to forget trying to sort out the labyrinth of my husband's crazy paperwork and refurbish our temple to 'make do and mend' with no one allowed in the house and office staff all working from home! I'm glad your recollections are so much more positive, as it helps to put things in perspective.
What a difference the wind coming in from the East makes! My TV signal and my HDD TV box is doing some very strange things... plus flights from Liverpool Airport are overhead again, + so noisy and low! At least I saw the Liverpool to Faro flight fly over, which had big Sis + Hubbie on board, on their way for a golf holiday..
I had a lovely evening yesterday. I went to “an evening with Adam Frost” He’s a really down to earth man and had an amazing life. Very entertaining to listen to. I’d recommend going if he comes to anyone’s area.
Gardener's World presenter, (the gardening woman's crumpet apparently), very knowledgeable, but whose voice is so muffled I can only understand every other word he says.
Doesn't do anything for me, either, but then none of them do, only their knowledge. I tend to see gardeners as my mates. I can see why he might appeal to others, though. Unfortunately I seem to have discovered my true taste in men too late to do anything about it!😐
I much prefer Adam Frost to Monty Don and I prefer his garden too. Monty’s is all enclosed spaces and gardens with names like ‘the jewel garden’ etc. Adam’s garden is much more open, you can see vistas across it from the back of his house via various beds to his lawn with trees in it . A bit more like ours I suppose. We enjoy the weeks when he is presenting much more than Mr Don
I have seen that. I've always felt that it's the poor relation of the flowe shows. I've ordered my tickets at I think it might be popular this year, they've gone up in price a lot!
I’m being a bit of a grump but I live within walking distance to the venue and I appreciate that my view isn’t very popular but during the RHS Show my life is curtailed by the crowds and traffic, so I’m quite glad that it will only be held every 3 years. The venue is used all year for many events and I know the shops and restaurants value the trade but getting out and about for residents is not easy. However, this May Day weekend is one I do enjoy as the May Day parade, the marching bands, May Pole dancing and fireworks are a lovely tradition dating back over 100 years. It’s a great event with many visitors. Also my 6 year old grandson is appearing in the parade as a medieval knight for the first time.
As to my post about the RHS show, it seems other such events are also being curtailed. To think that this year is the final year of Glastonbury (I think!). Also a festival event my family have been going to for years, is also holding its last event this year. I can only think it has to be the ever increasing costs charged by contractors etc. but probably it is more likely the insurance premiums of many types. I know how much my car insurance has gone up - eye watering! I shopped around, but to get the same cover none were cheaper. I could have gone for a cheaper option, but that meant a less fully comprehensive cover along with no legal fees covered etc. I prefer to stay safe for all eventualities, just in case, whilst I am still fully driving and active.
Just seen in my county thread Miriam that Glastonbury has been rated top of the UK places for Glamping…… so your relatives could still enjoy if the festival comes to an end.
Interesting to read that PtbY - I shall catch up with it on ITV X or whatever it’s called. Mr A is not keen on dramas ( mainly because he can never remember what happens from one episode to the next) and our TV is on permanent Snooker watch at the mo so I’ll have to watch Red Eye secretly on my iPad!
The Community nurse who visited me recently said she would put me on her list, so I might just get mine at home this time. She was horrified to hear that I hadn't had one for nearly two years because the venues are now so far away. I'm sure there must be many others in the same boat.
At least you have had the covid booster. It is far better to stay protected, even now. To me it is just one of those things like getting the yearly 'flu vaccine, to just try to Stay Safe! and healthy.
Jon and I are watching series one as it seemed a good series. Lacking TV programmes at the moment ! Anyway we watched as far as episode 3 last night. Tonight who knows ??
Mr R and myself both had our boosters a week ago today and yes they were Moderna they have to use what is sent to the Surgery but Moderna seems wide spread right now. So far I have had AZ / Pfizer & Moderna! Mr R just Pfizer and now Moderna he was a bit tired for a couple of days this time a first for him hut nothing to worry about after all we don’t have to go to work 🤣 🙏🏼
I felt very tired throughout yesterday after a strenuous strength and balance class, then moving on immediately to singing. My booster was at five thirty and by seven o’clock I was contemplating skip a meal and was then in bed by eight thirty. It’s now three thirty and I have not slept a wink.
I finally slept somewhere around 4am after horlicks and a biscuit. But I didn’t sleep well. I’m up now and drinking my tea at almost 11.30 and I feel rotten. Achy all over. Apart from the itchy arm ( that i remember AP also had ) I never had any side affects with the Pfizer, but feels like I’m getting some now with this Moderna.
Both myself and my son felt rotten after the Moderna for several days and neither of us would have it again. I made sure before my next one that it was going to be Pfizer and not Moderna. I am sure Sarnia is right and that people react differently. The only thing to do is rest, and treat yourself to something nice like buttery toast. Hope you are feeling better soon.
All I can say is -- Well Done All for getting the extra Covid vaccine as offered.. Any side-effects are worth it to stay safe long-term. In fairness, these only last for a couple of days, so think positive. It is far better than succumbing to this virus which is still around and here to stay.
My next is due in September/October when I suddenly realise that I will be also should be invited to ge the Shingles vaccine for the 1st time. l will also need a new driving licence! The latter is easier said than done, as mine is still a very tatty pink paper one. Must get more identity photos done soon. Perhaps then I will also get my bus pass, which could be useful in future times.
I was quite upset when I had to surrender my paper driving licence, I'd had it for over 60 years. I scanned it into my PC so that I at least had a copy of it.
Two observations relating to posts on the Ambridge thread, also noted on the aviation sites I follow: 1. Totally infantile comments in vulgar language from male contributers who clearly think they are extremely funny. 2. Wrestling with mangled syntax which appears to be common American usage thus - If he had come/ if he had gone become If he would have came or If he would have went. At first I thought it was just poor education, but a Swedish Captain who speaks fluent English with an American accent does it as well. Hey ho, live and let live!
Philippinos seem to be taught and speak American English as well Sarnia. I don't like "gonna" either spoken or spelt, instead of " going to". My son is slipping into the habit as well. Happy Mayday everyone. It is a beautiful sunny day for it down here.
Last night I was in bed by 9.15 with a sleeping tablet and had an excellent nights sleep. I awoke this morning feeling refreshed and normal with the mildest of muzzy heads only. Thanks for support yesterday, it was much appreciated.
Comment on our Covid jabs last week - we had Moderna too which gave me a bad reaction last time (having only ever had Pfizer before). This time I seemed to be Ok until 3 days later when I got the red swelling and intense itchiness as before. Unfortunately I also have several extremely itchy insect bites in various places so sleeping has been very difficult!
As the rain returns it is the end of a quiet but very special day (for the Lord and Lady of this Manor 🤣) How so? We have managed to reach our “Silver” Anniversary thanks to Mr R triumphing through all his trials and tribulations in spite of his years 😀 it is quite difficult to arrange things in advance but we went out for a lovely lunch and my sister joined us. On our return my neighbour joined us and in a week or so we are going to take her and her husband and daughter for a local lunch as and when the day is an ok one. So more to look forward to. Lovely cards beautiful flowers and phone calls and texts. So we are very blessed. We have been together for 28yrs but still a special milestone 🙏🏼
As I almost said on the other thread…. And sometimes the second chance lasts the longer. So pleased for you both Lady R and congratulations !
And speaking of May - since my daughter has been living on the Lizard and being near to Helston, I’ve wanted to visit in May in order to see The Floral Dance. This year I hope to be able to do so. Nymphs and Shepherds come away, come away, come come coo co om away.
Thank you all for your kind messages dear blogger friends they mean a lot as over the years we have all shared so much! Enough now of the Lord and Ladyship 😉 time to return to the real world 🤭
La Comptesse de St Maurice-en-Cotentin. Hmm, has a certain ring to it. That's the name of the village on the Cherbourg Peninsula from which my maternal Great Grandparents originated. Might get some labels printed ....😊
Lady R and her Knight in Shining Armour - sorry I didn’t log in yesterday to read your lovely news. Our congratulations and love to you both. What a special Anniversary, well worth celebrating!
Whilst eating brekkie this morning, I spotted something yellow in front garden. It was not a bit of plastic as thought, but a self-seeded wild yellow poppy - what a lovely surprise and has loads of buds still to bloom.
Possibly Sarnia, but I’ve noticed others along the lane, so think the seeds probably blew from there. Wherever it’s from I’m grateful to have even one. They are such a delight. I had some self seeded in my garden in Stroud too.
No Sarnia, not far at all. When visiting walks around Stroud, Wales is just over the Severne valley and can be seen daily. Just a different part of South Wales to my daily views here.
Yes, that much I know because we can see it from Rhoose Point where my son lives. I meant a convoluted flight path for a random seed. When I had my 70th at Symonds Yat we were more or less equidistant for family in Rhoose and Nailsworth. Incidentally, sil is now also a widow - Colin died on Wednesday morning, also cancer, which had crept up on him unexpectedly. She got rather more help than I did
Oh, yes. We were all very comfortable at their last visit, to the extent that sometimes I've almost begun to feel like 'big sister'. Being from a larger, spread-out family I've certainly had more idea as to how to go about things, even if I was so often thwarted!
"MayDay" Bank Holiday Sunday has come up trumps. What wonderful and hot sunshine at last, so much so I was able to eat my lunch-time sarnis in the garden. Long may it continue, as garden is still very much work in progress. It is slowly but surely.
WHAT Miriam! No sun here since late morning dull white cloud and certainly no summer temp 13c high. Sitting here with the heating on low. Glad you have had such a lovely day though and have been able to enjoy an alfresco lunch 👏🏻 What was your high temp today?
No idea outside, but inside house with no direct sun now at 17.24 is 20.6C. Mind you oven was on for ages up to 4.00pm (half price Sunday again), but all windows + doors are still wide open..and so it is so calm + still. The early evening birdsong is really wonderful to hear...
Lovely day here also. High temperature of 19 degrees. Spent the day in the garden emptying and cleaning my winter baskets, pots and troughs ready for planting summer bedding.
I need to re-varnish my window box (outside my lounge window), ready for planting. It will be a short job, hopefully. I am still struggling with getting rid of all the weeds, or should that be Triffids.
The worst problem are the deep-rooted grass clumps, which have grown into the flower beds. I can't believe again, how many plants have not survived from last year 😪
After lunch you went to sleep ? I have not woken up today !
Was meant to be driving to Cornwall today, but after a poor night - leg cramps four times plus loo breaks - although I managed to get up before 8 I have not really been properly awake all day. I’ve managed to put some clothes on and take Lady to the park ( she had a three hour walk on the moor yesterday ) but I’ve struggled to do such a short walk. Feel as tho’ I have a temperature again and feeling truly rotten. It was cloudy but very still early and throughout the morning, but could see rain coming up from the south and it was heavy when it arrived but the sun followed it. I’m hoping for a better night and to be ok tomorrow.
So sorry to hear this, Mrs P - a kick-back from the jab, possibly? I hope tomorrow will be a better day. Yes, I went back to sleep. I'm still downstairs at 7.20am on a Sunday, although on the one day when I need to be up early there is little incentive: my aeroplanes have a well-earned lie in on Sunday so nobody moves until the 8.30 Guernsey flight. The first one here doesn't come in until after 10am, by which time I'm already at work. Back into the church for the summer, although no longer at the organ as negotiating all the bits that need attention in order to produce a decent sound has become too much like hard work. As long as I'm prepared to do that people won't believe there's anything wrong with it! Morning service always knocks me flat, even on piano - it's having to work from outside the sound system, so I can't hear what's going on and have to rely on tone of voice and body language. I'm usually asleep on Sunday afternoon.
What a lovely day here. Been in the garden most of the day de-pointing a patio ready for re-pointing this coming week. Didn’t get it all done but should finish the prep tomorrow. Much better than doing housework!
In my opinion PtbY - any activity that is not housework….. is better than doing housework ! Pleased your feeling improved enough to be out in the garden at last.
I needed to dash out to the s/market this morning, as for some reason I had run out of potatoes. I just about managed to find enough for last night's meal (which I then boiled dry listening to last night's TA episodes🤷♀️)! What a nightmare - Is this what people do now on a Bank Holiday Monday - go to the supermarket?? One woman was complaining so much, the Manager had to be called.
I am not commenting on the other page as to TA and my differen thoughts! 🤣🥺🙀😂 All I will say is that my evening meal tonight, will be on-time and being eaten before it starts 🫰.
I’ve had a great couple of days, yesterday I drove to Cardiff to see Bruce Springsteen in concert (for the 6th time in 43 years) I was staying with my cousin who I hadn’t seen in years & we stayed up talking til 2.00 am drinking more Prosecco than we should have. We were somewhat late getting up this morning. I then visited my aunt, also a rather overdue meet-up, her health is not good so I was glad to have seen her. Now back home, caught up with the happenings in Ambridge and planning an early night
I had a local community alert yesterday morning, which has also appeared in the local newspaper today. Poison Hemlock has been found growing on a path very close to me. I will certainly be very careful when weeding garden. Thinking back to last year and the very overgrown garden adjoining my garden, there were a couple of very tall weeds growing in it, which I thought was cow parsley.. I wonder now. Local Parish Council acted so swiftly putting barricades + notices around this toxic plant.
And even worse would be hogweed, which also looks like large cow parsley and can inflict lifelong skin burns. Mr A is still suffering from sores on his arms if he goes out in the sun, 30 years after inadvertently strimming a patch of hogweed with no protection. We didn’t know how dangerous it was at the time.
Sarnia Thanks for the suggestion. The alert that was sent had a link to show all about this plant, which I also "googled". What was in the neighbouring garden is not known, as I couldn't see it clearly, just that it was tall with white flowers. It was all cut down when house was renovated last year. As so close to this path 🤷♀️
My daughter was once shocked to see on a plant app a picture of hemlock just labelled as a member of the carrot family ( true it is ) and contacted the site to say it should emphasise it was hemlock and could be deadly poisonous. Have just altered my profile picture to show the camellia that has been here before my time, and although the first flowers came out in January it is still smothered in flowers now. I have grown another from a cutting of it. Bella cat is sitting in front of it in the sunshine.
My wonderful pink standard azalea is magnificent this year also. I have taken a photo of it. When trying to put it as my profile picture - it just doesn't work.
A lovely, warm and sunny day here today. We went up to Lyme where we did my second favourite walk.We haven't done it for ages as it tends to get very boggy and we've had a lot of rain! It was still boggy in patches but nothing our boots couldn't cope with. Once we went up the hill and into the wood it was so silent apart from birdsong and we heard a cuckoo, our first this year. It was just so peaceful, I could have stayed all day.
Went for my post op check up today. Surgeon was very pleased with results, as am I. Overall they lifted my lower eye lid a quarter of an inch so I have a normal looking eye now. It’s been a long 5 years since my eye problem started but 🤞it’s all over now. What with that and a new hip there’s no holding me back now. 😊
Is anyone watching the current series of Race Around the World? We are not enjoying it as much as the series in Canada, or the celebrity one round Europe. All the far east cities seem very crowded and noisy and although some of the countryside is beautiful. Too much time seems to be spent looking for bus stations! We find the Mother and daughter who are always squabbling very annoying and we are hoping either the brother and sister or the two young male friends will win.
Yes we are watching this. I’m not enamoured with any of the contestants but watching it for the scenery. These sleeping buses look amazing. I can’t believe that 2 couples have lost the map!!!! For goodness sake. AND the brother leaving his money belt with his passport in, well , just sums up young uns today. My money belt would never leave my body and would be under my T-shirt. Nobody would be pinching anything of mine.
My eldest grand niece is 13yrs at the end of the month. Yesterday her "birthday list" was posted for all to peruse. I was gobsmacked. Things asked for:- hoodie/sweat shirts which had to have the xxxx logo on it, named cosmetics or gift cards for similar named items... Everything has to be of a particular brand! As much as Iove her, I found this a bit much and dare I say, too expecting. What did I opt for? - a fluffy dressing gown, which I found half-price on the good old internet. In my day and even now, a birthday present is purely a nice gesture which as been thought about and then appreciated. Oh Well - that's a modern day 13yr old, expect + get.
I think I was wearing make up at 13. Ponds ! I had ditched it some time when 14 though. Fortunately my face flared up with a reaction. The doctor told me it was that muck on my face. I stopped wearing it and have had flawless skin since. Some years later I did go VERY big on the eye makeup though, real sixties girl me !
My G ch have never asked or had a list for any B’day or C’mas and have always sent a letter of thanks ( although usually some weeks later, I suspect because of mums nagging ! ) I did have a partner who listed everything in life, including B’day and C’mas presents wanted. I found it very disconcerting as I came from a family who would have considered it very bad mannered to ask or expect anything.
I just find it sad as to this expectation and the need for "labels". This comes from both her father and her paternal grandparents. I gave her (and her brother) £25 cash at Christmas, but I could see the disappointment in her face.
Talking about birthdays, it was my niece's in OZ yesterday. I posted her card 3 weeks in advance, but it only arrived on the day! Apparently the Australia postal service is far worse than ours. I was thrilled though to get a personal message saying Thank-you. Little things mean such a lot.
It is sad Miriam and especially so I think when you understand that it comes from ‘ the other side ‘ of the child’s family. For a number of years I was able to give only £ 25 to each Gchild at C’mas and never gave anything other than a card for B’ days. In recent years I’ve been in a better financial position and have given them far more and more often and each of them have actually said “ are you sure Nana ? “. It was very difficult for me since my son in laws parents are pretty well off and have already provided the children with a trust fund.
You have both given the most precious gifts over the years your time and love which are far more important and the current reaction of your grandchildren proves that Mrs P and hopefully Miriam your niece will realise the same in a few years time!
It was a cloudless night sky here but I could see a sort of cloudiness in the sky towards the north which I think might have been the Aurora. On our cruise to view them a couple of years ago, the same thing happened and only those looking through a camera lens or taking photographs could see the wonderful colours. The weatherman on BBC news this morning said human eyes aren’t strong enough to admit enough light and a camera or other lens is required. There was a photo on the news taken Basingstoke so I assume that’s what I was looking at! Wish I’d had my iPad with me.
Small Person in Reading was in the back garden watching them last night. Sent us some lovely photos. Apparently a friend took even better ones which Small Person is going to send on. Too much environmental light to see anything here.
I missed it, as didn't know. Neice and family who are only 25 miles away, so not too far from Cheshire Cheese (they're Nantwich), went out to a nearby field. The photo's she posted today were amazing. I am so jealous. Perhaps tonight if stays clear 🫰🫰
I will look from my north facing back garden, as I don't want to go walking about on my own in the dark.. Luckily lighting nearby is low and there are tall trees close by which blocks out light (and messes with my TV signal - another issue).
My son sent me photos of last night’s northern lights which he took whilst in North Wales, Lleyn peninsula. He even woke his 6 year old son to experience the sight as it will be another 20 years, apparently, before the phenomena happens again in this part of the world to such an impressive degree. The photos were superb so I was hopeful that I’d get to see them tonight, so far nothing to see.
I forgot to look for the lights on Friday, MrNuts looked but couldn’t see much, but he wasn’t looking with his iPhone, last night we both looked (I’ve got an app on my phone) but nothing much visible. Not that upset as we saw some amazing displays when we went on an astronomy cruise up the Norwegian coast a few years back, and I did see a lovely bright shooting star 💫
Chichester Summer season is underway, last night we went to see “The other Boleyn girl” quite long but moved at a fair lick. Much wider range of ages in the audience which was nice to see, normally Chichester makes me feel young.
Am a proud grand Aunty tonight, as the rugby season comes to an end. Niece (soon to be 13yrs) has been chosen as the captain of her team for next season. Nephew (10yrs) who belongs to a different club, was awarded club Player of the Year today. They have both so embraced rugby and in a good and positive way. It is well done to parents also, who are their drivers to venues and matches every Sunday, often in very opposite directions.
Well done to your niece and nephew Miriam. I remember those days of driving children all over the place to various activities. We are currently sitting in the conservatory with an almighty storm raging overhead, it's so refreshing after the sultry day that we've had. The garden will be glad of a drink.
Well what a quiet day on both blogs yesterday! Have you all been so busy in your gardens with the recent appearance of the sun and are now worn out 🤭 The sun has disappeared at the moment with rain overnight. Some storms you Cheshire bloggers experienced any resulting damage? (do hope not)
I wasn’t busy in our garden (wish I could be!). But we did go to visit a garden open Inas of the Alton Cardiac Rehab facility which Mr H uses. I expected it to be a Manor House, or large country house with a big garden, as ‘gardens open’ often are. But this was in a village called Four Marks and turned out to be a modern bungalow at the end of a close of similar bungalows. It was quite small but so colourful with borders of Japanese maples of every colour under the sun, and an amazing variety of foliage. A greenhouse was full of huge succulent plants, again of many colours. Tea and cakes were served to visitors and it was a really lovely afternoon. Come to the conclusion I quite fancy a nice bungalow in Four Marks!
Very interesting AP and an unexpected find. Four Marks has certainly grown over the years I remember it without street lights but now has some good facilities and easy access to nearby towns. Was Mr A impressed as to a possible change of address 🤔
Indeed Sarnia, Arlesford - Medstead/ Four Marks - Alton Many events take place throughout the year plus Sunday lunch excursions and Saturday nights Dining Belle, not cheap but an experience.
Well, as we were sitting in this very pretty but smallish garden enjoying our tea and Lemon Drizzle I said ‘ wouldn’t it be lovely if we had a garden this size and could look after it properly. And he said ‘ yes it would’!!!!! I didn’t say any more but I think the idea is sinking in and I shall continue with my campaign as he now admits he can’t cope so well these days. How I hate this getting old business!
Well done AP. Silence after his reply was exactly the right response, let it rest there for a while. In the meantime could you surreptitiously get onto a local estate agents list for a heads up should a bungalow in Four Marks about to come on the market ? I’m sure many of us would be happy to keep our fingers crossed for you now that seeds have been sown?
And yes - we all hate this getting old business. But we need to remember the other side of the coin too. Old age is not for the fragile or weak willed - So, as we are experiencing this getting old business we need to remember that we are the tough ones for having reached this far.
It certainly has its problems, but I for one wouldn't be young again for anything. I hated all the interference and being denied the same opportunities as others simply because I was me. That taught me to grab with both hands any openings that came my way, no matter how small and set my own standards irrespective of what other people thought I could or couldn't do. However, I'm grateful that I didn't have the first idea how long and hard the journey was going to be to get where I am now, or indeed, that I would ever get here at all! Despite the physical limitations and ongoing complications, I'm freer now than I've been in my life; every now and again that hits me right between the eyes, and it's exhilarating.
Good you’ve sowed the seeds there Archerphile. Get four marks on rightmove and keep an eye on the market. As soon as a suitable bungalow comes on the market go see it. We did that. Mr PtbY didn’t want to move. He could see the pro’s of the move to here but wasn’t bothered. Didn’t want the upheaval or the expense. He doesn’t like change. Now he says it’s the best thing we’ve done. They need a little shove in the right direction I think.
Thank you everyone for the advice, and don’t worry, I have already searched Right Move, Zoopla and other property finding sites for bungalows in that area! The main problem is that it seems to be an expensive area, especially for bungalows. It is a very desirable area and suitable for commuting to Southampton and Winchester. Nothing suitable under £500, 000 and £6 -750,000 nearer the mark. I think we shall have to concentrate on north Hampshire for something we could afford. I live in hope!
Four Marks and nearby might be desirable, but do you want to live in a commuting community.. ? It might be better to be in north Hampshire in a more settled community.
Good Luck AP. It seems the seeds have been sown so keep it going in a subtle way. Remember last year when I talked about Little Sis moving from Norfolk to Suffolk. They just decided to put their property on the market, sold it (with problems). They went into a rental property short-term as just couldn't find a property which felt right. So much had to go into storage though. They did so many viewings - but as registered with several estate agents, they got a notification of a property just about to come onto the market. They went and saw it -and offered there + then which was accepted. It is the perfect home for them. I had a laugh last week as she sent me a video of the bell ringers practicing in the church, which is at the bottom of their garden. All I can say is - practice might make perfect eventually. 😆🔔
Having been a learner bellringer when young I know exactly the clatter your sister must be experiencing Miriam. Tintagel is a lucky village in that the church is about quarter of a mile away out on the cliffs and the bells are only heard when the wind is blowing in from the sea. Otherwise it is just the seagulls and the jackdaws in the tower who hear it and they don't seem to mind. If your sister finds it really difficult she could ask if muffles could be put on the bells. It is a bit of a hazzle though because someone has to climb up amongst the bells to fit them, and it is quite a skilled thing to do, and then take them off again before services when they want them to sound out clearly. They are expensive to buy and not all towers have them. They are used when ringing for funerals, and if a church doesn't have muffles they may borrow from somewhere that does have them.
They have probably got several new people learning at the same time. When there is just one learner amongst a team of say 6, the more experienced ringers can do their best to avoid clashing with the out of place bell so it doesn't sound so bad. You are right though practice does make perfect eventually. 🔔🎼🎵🎶🔔
I tried bell ringing when in Putney. I was not made to feel welcome by the captain and the towers did not seem to be a happy place. I lasted only a few weeks. Some years later I heard that the captain of a very long standing was altogether a very unpopular man, but he had a powerful standing within the church community and every one had to bow to his superiority.
That's a real shame Mrs P. I learnt as a young teenager with a group of friends the same age. Before that there had been no ringers at all for many many years. Then our vicar decided it was daft having bells that were never rung when there were a group of youngsters who could be taught. He located an old ringer who first taught him and a lady who helped with the children's groups, and they then taught us. I think because we were children it was always kept lighthearted and informal, and we had treats and outings as well, and because there was no hierarchy our tower was probably a bit different from most. Later in life we scattered all over the country but we still kept in touch. I don't ring nowadays but still love to hear the bells.
My three children were all bell-ringers at the church which is a two minute walk away. My eldest went to Loughborough to see a new bell being cast, and was reported on in the local newspaper. He hasn;t rung bells for many years, but came over last week for a funeral, contacted the tower captain and got to go to the weekly practice. He could hardly move his arms the next day. I hear the practice every Thursday evening, it always reminds me of my younger family and i will miss it.
When I lived in. Malmesbury I would garden on Tuesday evening listening to the practice, and now in Minehead it’s Friday evening. There were no bells rung in Rodborough.
I’ve been in Cornwall with my daughter for almost a week now. Helping with the cottages and the horses. She has asked me to stay longer, and when she has to return to the London house where my SIL is preparing that house for a new tenant. The prospect is a little daunting !
No I am up in the north of the county Mistral, and can't drive at present. For 2 days and nights last week I was in Truro, but unfortunately in the hospital. Had a second small TIA after a bigger one in March. Not a proper stroke but a mini one, and am absolutely flaked out and resting in bed. Have been told it can take months for the fatigue to lift and energy to come back even after a small one which has cheesed me off as all the weeds are growing in the garden. And it has well and truly dented my pride as I thought I was a healthy person. It is part of the reason i haven't come back to listening to the Archers just yet because it seemed it was going to be miserable, and I need cheerful things at present.
Re the hospital. I am going to try to work out before the election who is genuinely going to put most into the NHS. I spent the first night until 4am along with other people sitting up in a hard chair ( although fair do's the incredible staff were doing their best and carting me off for tests and head scan etc. Then I progressed to a reclining chair in a bay with curtains. The next day i progressed to join a line of other trolley beds along the wall of the A and E corridor, from where they took me for a MRI. The night was dire, no sleep and none the night before, people covered in blood being rushed through from ambulances and loudspeakers calling for doctors to go to the Resusitaion room. They regularly came to check my blood pressure and it was sky high. No wonder. One lovely nurse was even singing to me as she took it trying to get a liwer reading. And even in the night they came and shone a bright light in your eyes ( necessary I know) and asked questions like Do you know what month is it? And apparently the correct answer is not Yes!
I didn't mean to mention this as it is not something cheerful, but it is good to let off steam. A very nice physiotherapist has come to the house to start me off with exercises for my wobbly walking, as there is a waiting list for the local physio department, and the doctor at the stroke clinic i attended after the March one is very good. So now on blinking blood thinners Clopidogrel. My mother used to be on Warfarin, don't know the difference, and deliberately not looking things up on line as it will just scare me! I suppose now i will have to be careful not to slip on the wet paths in the garden in case of bleeding. Anyone else on bloodthinners?
Oh Janice, what you have been through is dreadful and unforgivable. Our NHS should not be like this, you should have been able to go straight to a bed, not be stuck in a corridor with more blooded casualties waiting for treatment. What has our NHS come to? I’m afraid I dont trust either of the big parties to make much difference, at least not in the short run. I despair, I really do. I hope you will soon be feeling a bit better but don’t try to rush things. Dont worry about the blood thinner, it is necessary to protect you from more strokes ( my son is on warfarin at the moment for the same reasons but it would be wise not to risk a fall. Please do let us know how you are progressing and keep in touch.
Janice. What an awful experience after a frightening event. My hospital A+E dept has a side ward with beds in, where patients are put until a ward bed is available. Also there is now a huge new day A+E building, which is where longer needed treatment is done for patients who do not then necessarily need admission. This is aimed to free up the actual A+E depth.
As to the bells, my sister loves hearing them like me, and bell practice doesn't worry her at all. She just wishes to hear improvement in the near future..
Janice I feel for you and hope that things improve in the not too distant future. Having worked in the NHS for decades it really saddens me to see what is happening to it. I had a meet up with ex work colleagues last week and we were all saying the same thing.
On a more cheerful note, we went to RHS Bridgewater today. A pair of coots have built a nest next to the café's outdoor terrace, upon which were two little chicks. The parents were busy replenishing the nest with vegetation and, at one point, one of them passed a piece to one of the chicks which promptly dropped it. The parent passed it back and the chick managed to put it in place. Such a nice moment in the doom and gloom that is in the world (and TA). I managed to get a video of it.
Thankfully you must have missed the rain. It is chucking it down here. I've had recently fledged blackbirds in garden, with parents very much watching over them. The noise they make when puss-cat goes out 🙉
Oh Janice, what a dreadful time you’ve had over recent days. I’m sure that along with everyone else I would like to be able to give you some warm words of comfort, but rather like everyone else it is despair at the state of the NHS and what patients like you are put through rather than the all encompassing warmth and compassion of the past. Do try to let thoughts of your garden and it’s needs be put aside and concentrate on your needs instead. I think you are very fortunate to have a physio come out to you, and well done that doctor who probably over rode objections to get her to you. And my thoughts are especially with you as I’m just a few miles down the coast at the moment.
As for the state of the NHS and the general election when it comes, I have no hope at all that any one party of any persuasion can do anything to improve the situation. All politicians want to do is throw money at the problem and time and again that has proved fruitless. I was able to see problems building when a young nurse in the late fifties and early sixties, and I’ve watched those problems deteriorate further throughout the decades since. Last month I read on a local feed that our small hospital in Minehead was changing all the signage of the hospital to reflect a small change in name of one department ( I forget which department ) I despair ! The cost of that change in signage and headed paperwork alone will be thousands if not millions, and for what ? Because some jobsworth has decided that the present name of the department does not reflect the ethos of the hospital ? I don’t know the answer to my questions but it does make me think of the conditions of hospitals in the current war zones operating quite possibly without any signage at all.
Janice, how horrible for you. I read about what goes on but of course I don't really understand the impact because I haven't experienced it myself. I hope the weather stays warm so that you can enjoy being outside, it's still lovely to be outdoors if you can ignore the jobs. I often spend so much time messing about that I forget to sit and enjoy it. Hope the physio goes well, take care.
AmbridgesMrsPApril 23, 2024 at 11:23 PM
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How is your eye ?
Pain gone I hope.
Improvement ?
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Proud to be Yorkshire.April 24, 2024 at 1:55 PM
It’s doing ok MrsP thanks. I’m having to put antibiotic cream in 4 times a day so seem to have cloudy vision most of the day out of it. I’m not very good at doing nothing though. Desperate to get back into the garden
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AmbridgesMrsPApril 24, 2024 at 3:54 PM
Be patient- your time out in the garden will come soon.
Your eye is more important !
I’m actually doing some gardening today, and managed some yesterday too.
Has anybody else been watching the developments with the military horses running amok in central London today ?
Although I realise the awful danger to both horses and public, not forgetting vehicles damaged, I have to say that I find it utterly thrilling to see horses galloping riderless through central London.
Makes me think of my dad who started his working life at thirteen taking
Makes me think of my dad who started his working life at thirteen taking newspapers from Fleet Street to Paddington Station and being in charge of a team of horses pulling the load. In later years he became a mounted soldier, and every year after watching the Royal Tournament we had to visit the stables at the back of Earls Court to admire the horses. Once I was an adult, my daughters were put through the same routine.
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Cheshire CheeseApril 24, 2024 at 4:16 PM
Seeing those horses reminded me of when Mr CC and I were in a riding club decades ago. We visited Greater Manchester Police's stables once and were put to work in the indoor arena making a lot of noise as part of the horses' training for them to get used to it. it made me wonder if military horses don't do that training as they are now purely ceremonial.
One of the main things I remember about that visit was that those stables were the cleanest I'd ever seen!
MiriamApril 24, 2024 at 2:58 PM
ReplyDeleteI was lucky today. I shopped in the big S/bury's about 6 miles away and found a pair of jeans which looked good. I tried them on quickly, as had to leave my trolley outside. On leaving the changing room I, for some reason , ooked back. On the floor was my car key card which had obviously fallen out of the pocket from the jeans, I was wearing. As said very lucky to spot it.
Still shop was good with savings of £21 eg toothpaste I use half-price, fish less than half-price, garden stuff 3 for price of 2..
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Cheshire CheeseApril 24, 2024 at 4:18 PM
Did you buy the jeans Miriam?
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MiriamApril 24, 2024 at 4:25 PM
Yes. Perfect fit and just £16. I bought blue but sadly not a
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Sarnia April 24, 2024 at 5:56 PM
You lucky thing, Miriam! Sainsbury's jeans are a mystery to me, as in my size the waist comes up under my armpits and the legs are a foot too long. In the next size down the same complaints would apply - except I can't get them over my hips!
Photo of Winchester cathedral nave, once the longest in Europe, not sure if that is still the case. Amazing acoustics, my elder daughter attended school in Winchester and the end of term services were held in the cathedral, the nine lessons and carols were lovely. Hope MrsP has a fantastic day, it’s sunny at the moment, I would have liked to suggest meeting up but am busy all day.
ReplyDeleteIncredible architecture. How skilled those builders/craftsmen must have been.
ReplyDeleteAnd to add, Winchester cathedral was built on a high water table and has often flooded. Around the turn of the last century the south and west sides of the building were subsiding and in danger of collapse. A diver called William Walker was sent down into the foundations, in one of those old fashioned diving suits with a big brass helmet and he managed to shore up the foundations. A very brave man, he saved the cathedral.
ReplyDeleteThere is a statue of him in the cathedral wearing his diving suit.
AP, one day when I was very small (under 5) we were driving past part of St Peter Port harbour at low tide when a diver in one of those suits bobbed up out of the water. I saw the enormous helmet, had no idea what it was and was terrified.
Delete4.5 degrees this morning!!!! What is wrong with the weather?
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Hope you have had a good day MrsP by the time you read this.
I too am so fed up with the cold, rain etc. When will it ever get warmer?
DeleteI was hoping to do some jobs in the garden today, every time I went out it started to rain. When I went inside and started something else the sun came out. It's been a frustrating day. I'm off to the dentist tomorrow. I broke a tooth last Friday and had a temporary filling done and was given an appointment for tomorrow for a new filling. What's the betting it will be fine!
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DeleteCC You sound as frustrated as I am re gardening!
DeleteMy lawn was treated today, so will need mowing in 3-4 days time, thst is weather permitting!
Well ……….. it was a day out…… as my mum would have said.
ReplyDeleteIt didn’t look too bad as we set off passing through Somerset Dorset Wiltshire - past Stonehenge ! - and into Hampshire. Still dry but cold on arrival and stayed cold.
I had no intention whatsoever to do any shopping other than to exchange some knickers in M&S. I arrived home with various carrier bags overflowing. But in the case of two purchases I was given a couple of pounds discount through chatting.
I saw the Cathedral from the edge of the grounds and admired all the older architecture, but by the time the rain started, only drizzle but cold with it! And my ankle had given out I spent the last forty five minutes sitting in a bus shelter.
Good conversation with a fellow traveller though.
Not a bad day, and I will look forward to returning after my operation when I hope to be in possession of two working ankles.
( the legs are still excellent ! )
Yes KP, next time. And I’m flattered that my excursion has elicited such a magnificent photographic header. Thank you.
I gather the market was good, then?
DeleteVery glad to hear news of your trip Mrs P, thought of you on and off throughout the day (especially with regard to your dodgy ankle!) hopefully your next visit will be even better and KP will be free to meet up for a coffee. For me right now that would not be an option of course but all of us other Hampshire Hogs would be with you in spirit.
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When is my op Lady R ?
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Guernsey donkey here, Lady R!
DeleteOh of course Sarnia - apologies possibly KP and Archerphile are not genuine hogs either. Mr R and myself both are 🙂
DeleteNot just the market, but lots of independent shops too.
ReplyDeleteNot surprising really, as it’s a city and a major Hampshire Hub.
With regards to my ankle, I’m finding now that overdoing it on one day means that I suffer for the following two days. I’m in agony when moving around this morning, and close to tears last night.
I'm so sorry to hear that your ankle is giving you so much pain. It really saddens me to think that so many people are sitting on waiting lists suffering and unable to get on with their lives.
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DeleteMost of the time I am getting on with my life and pushing through the pain, continuing to walk daily. But I’m not my best friend, as I choose to live in places where it’s not the easiest terrain, ie flat ! And the beach is not much better as though walking on sand is good for the legs it is very hard going on dry sand and therefore harder on the ankles. When the tide is out and the wet or damp sand is available I am able to walk well.
I’ve been waiting for almost all of the time I’ve lived here, nearly two years now, for an elderly gentleman, a local upholsterer, to do my day bed. He had to wait for his first hip repair and is still waiting for the second. Unable to continue working while he waits. And probably not being active in other ways while he waits.
Millions like him !
Well Done Mrs P.
DeleteIt seems you had a grand day, even though it was slightly curtailed. I so admire you for going onwards and upwards.
What a strong person you are 👏
Frost on car again this morning at 7.00am 😱
ReplyDeleteI was talking to some-one yesterday about April 2020 in Lockdown and memories.
What we both said was how lovely, sunny + warm it was, so all were out in gardens, in spring wear!
How I wish I had kept a journal of that awful time, as to life had to adapt for what became 2yrs in total.
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Oh, Miriam, and here am I doing my best to forget trying to sort out the labyrinth of my husband's crazy paperwork and refurbish our temple to 'make do and mend' with no one allowed in the house and office staff all working from home!
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What a difference the wind coming in from the East makes!
ReplyDeleteMy TV signal and my HDD TV box is doing some very strange things... plus flights from Liverpool Airport are overhead again, + so noisy and low!
At least I saw the Liverpool to Faro flight fly over, which had big Sis + Hubbie on board, on their way for a golf holiday..
...it was at 6.30am!!
DeleteI had a lovely evening yesterday. I went to “an evening with Adam Frost”
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I'd go to that PtbY
DeleteWow! Head still in the clouds, PtbY?
DeleteGardener's World presenter, (the gardening woman's crumpet apparently), very knowledgeable, but whose voice is so muffled I can only understand every other word he says.
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And before anyone thinks the obvious ! I am capable of finding some men attractive.
Doesn't do anything for me, either, but then none of them do, only their knowledge. I tend to see gardeners as my mates. I can see why he might appeal to others, though.
DeleteUnfortunately I seem to have discovered my true taste in men too late to do anything about it!😐
I much prefer Adam Frost to Monty Don and I prefer his garden too. Monty’s is all enclosed spaces and gardens with names like ‘the jewel garden’ etc. Adam’s garden is much more open, you can see vistas across it from the back of his house via various beds to his lawn with trees in it . A bit more like ours I suppose. We enjoy the weeks when he is presenting much more than Mr Don
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DeleteCC Have you seen the Tatton RHS show is now to be held just every 3 years at Tatton?
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I have seen that. I've always felt that it's the poor relation of the flowe shows. I've ordered my tickets at I think it might be popular this year, they've gone up in price a lot!
DeleteI’m being a bit of a grump but I live within walking distance to the venue and I appreciate that my view isn’t very popular but during the RHS Show my life is curtailed by the crowds and traffic, so I’m quite glad that it will only be held every 3 years.
DeleteThe venue is used all year for many events and I know the shops and restaurants value the trade but getting out and about for residents is not easy.
However, this May Day weekend is one I do enjoy as the May Day parade, the marching bands, May Pole dancing and fireworks are a lovely tradition dating back over 100 years. It’s a great event with many visitors. Also my 6 year old grandson is appearing in the parade as a medieval knight for the first time.
As to my post about the RHS show, it seems other such events are also being curtailed.
ReplyDeleteTo think that this year is the final year of Glastonbury (I think!). Also a festival event my family have been going to for years, is also holding its last event this year.
I can only think it has to be the ever increasing costs charged by contractors etc. but probably it is more likely the insurance premiums of many types.
I know how much my car insurance has gone up - eye watering! I shopped around, but to get the same cover none were cheaper.
I could have gone for a cheaper option, but that meant a less fully comprehensive cover along with no legal fees covered etc. I prefer to stay safe for all eventualities, just in case, whilst I am still fully driving and active.
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I had a sleepless start last night, so got up, made a cup of tea, and put TV on.
ReplyDeleteWhat a delight - Neil Diamond.
Loved it, with so many memories
..along with a live performance of "Cracklin' Rosie" and "Sweet Caroline".
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Sorry as to my post on the Life in Ambridge page. 😪 🙀
ReplyDeleteI will though continue here with all our many lives and normality, as it affects us all.
Off to listen to TA and then watch the the Men's European Athletics Champoinships on BBC3. 🏴
ReplyDeleteInteresting to read that PtbY - I shall catch up with it on ITV X or whatever it’s called. Mr A is not keen on dramas ( mainly because he can never remember what happens from one episode to the next) and our TV is on permanent Snooker watch at the mo so I’ll have to watch Red Eye secretly on my iPad!
ReplyDeleteWe're recording it. I'll look forward to watching it in the near future.
ReplyDeleteThat's the one I'm supposed to have but can never access.
ReplyDeleteWhy? This is the normal one used now and has very little after/side effects.
DeleteRound here they only ever seem to have Pfizer, which has risks for me.
DeleteHave you checked recently Sarnia 🤞🏼 for you
DeleteThe Community nurse who visited me recently said she would put me on her list, so I might just get mine at home this time. She was horrified to hear that I hadn't had one for nearly two years because the venues are now so far away.
DeleteI'm sure there must be many others in the same boat.
At least you have had the covid booster. It is far better to stay protected, even now. To me it is just one of those things like getting the yearly 'flu vaccine, to just try to Stay Safe! and healthy.
ReplyDeleteJon and I are watching series one as it seemed a good series. Lacking TV programmes at the moment ! Anyway we watched as far as episode 3 last night. Tonight who knows ??
ReplyDeleteMr R and myself both had our boosters a week ago today and yes they were Moderna they have to use what is sent to the Surgery but Moderna seems wide spread right now. So far I have had AZ / Pfizer & Moderna! Mr R just Pfizer and now Moderna he was a bit tired for a couple of days this time a first for him hut nothing to worry about after all we don’t have to go to work 🤣 🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteI felt very tired throughout yesterday after a strenuous strength and balance class, then moving on immediately to singing.
DeleteMy booster was at five thirty and by seven o’clock I was contemplating skip a meal and was then in bed by eight thirty.
It’s now three thirty and I have not slept a wink.
Wow Mrs P an impressive day I am worn out just reading about it ! Try to rest and catch up on your sleep today - if you can.
DeleteArcherphile message to Mr A - what a snooker match yesterday between Allen and Higgins such a finish we thought of him as we watched 😉
ReplyDeleteI finally slept somewhere around 4am after horlicks and a biscuit. But I didn’t sleep well.
ReplyDeleteI’m up now and drinking my tea at almost 11.30 and I feel rotten.
Achy all over.
Apart from the itchy arm ( that i remember AP also had ) I never had any side affects with the Pfizer, but feels like I’m getting some now with this Moderna.
Both myself and my son felt rotten after the Moderna for several days and neither of us would have it again. I made sure before my next one that it was going to be Pfizer and not Moderna. I am sure Sarnia is right and that people react differently. The only thing to do is rest, and treat yourself to something nice like buttery toast. Hope you are feeling better soon.
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ReplyDeleteAll I can say is -- Well Done All for getting the extra Covid vaccine as offered..
ReplyDeleteAny side-effects are worth it to stay safe long-term.
In fairness, these only last for a couple of days, so think positive. It is far better than succumbing to this virus which is still around and here to stay.
My next is due in September/October when I suddenly realise that I will be also should be invited to ge the Shingles vaccine for the 1st time.
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The latter is easier said than done, as mine is still a very tatty pink paper one.
Must get more identity photos done soon. Perhaps then I will also get my bus pass, which could be useful in future times.
I was quite upset when I had to surrender my paper driving licence, I'd had it for over 60 years. I scanned it into my PC so that I at least had a copy of it.
DeleteI’ve received a letter this week telling me that I need to apply for a new licence.
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DeleteI meant 50 years not 60. I wasn't driving at age 8!
DeleteTwo observations relating to posts on the Ambridge thread, also noted on the aviation sites I follow:
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2. Wrestling with mangled syntax which appears to be common American usage thus -
If he had come/ if he had gone become If he would have came or If he would have went.
At first I thought it was just poor education, but a Swedish Captain who speaks fluent English with an American accent does it as well. Hey ho, live and let live!
Philippinos seem to be taught and speak American English as well Sarnia. I don't like "gonna" either spoken or spelt, instead of " going to". My son is slipping into the habit as well.
ReplyDeleteHappy Mayday everyone. It is a beautiful sunny day for it down here.
Oh, so it is. I missed that!
DeleteChanneling CC on the other thread, gonna is my pet hate too Janice.
DeleteBut it has to be said, it is only one of many.
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DeleteLast night I was in bed by 9.15 with a sleeping tablet and had an excellent nights sleep.
ReplyDeleteI awoke this morning feeling refreshed and normal with the mildest of muzzy heads only.
Thanks for support yesterday, it was much appreciated.
Comment on our Covid jabs last week - we had Moderna too which gave me a bad reaction last time (having only ever had Pfizer before). This time I seemed to be Ok until 3 days later when I got the red swelling and intense itchiness as before. Unfortunately I also have several extremely itchy insect bites in various places so sleeping has been very difficult!
ReplyDeleteAs the rain returns it is the end of a quiet but very special day (for the Lord and Lady of this Manor 🤣) How so? We have managed to reach our “Silver” Anniversary thanks to Mr R triumphing through all his trials and tribulations in spite of his years 😀 it is quite difficult to arrange things in advance but we went out for a lovely lunch and my sister joined us. On our return my neighbour joined us and in a week or so we are going to take her and her husband and daughter for a local lunch as and when the day is an ok one. So more to look forward to. Lovely cards beautiful flowers and phone calls and texts. So we are very blessed.
ReplyDeleteWe have been together for 28yrs but still a special milestone 🙏🏼
Blessings upon you both, Lord and Lady R.
DeleteMany congratulations Lady and Lord R.🎂 🌷🪻🌻🍀🎉
ReplyDeleteA Mayday bride, that must have been special. May is my favourite month when everything is fresh and new.
DeleteTo Lady R. and her Wonderful Lord.
ReplyDeleteWhat a memorable day for you both..Warmest Congratulations from me also. ❤️ 🎆
Congratulations to your Lordship and Ladyship
ReplyDeleteAs I almost said on the other thread…. And sometimes the second chance lasts the longer.
DeleteSo pleased for you both Lady R and congratulations !
And speaking of May - since my daughter has been living on the Lizard and being near to Helston, I’ve wanted to visit in May in order to see The Floral Dance.
This year I hope to be able to do so.
Nymphs and Shepherds come away, come away, come come coo co om away.
Thank you all for your kind messages dear blogger friends they mean a lot as over the years we have all shared so much! Enough now of the Lord and Ladyship 😉 time to return to the real world 🤭
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking of becoming a Countess....
ReplyDelete😅😂🤣 and why not Sarnia (you would then have a higher ranking than my “faux” Lady title!
DeleteLa Comptesse de St Maurice-en-Cotentin. Hmm, has a certain ring to it.
DeleteThat's the name of the village on the Cherbourg Peninsula from which my maternal Great Grandparents originated.
Might get some labels printed ....😊
Lady R and her Knight in Shining Armour - sorry I didn’t log in yesterday to read your lovely news.
ReplyDeleteOur congratulations and love to you both. What a special Anniversary, well worth celebrating!
Thank you both so much 🙏🏼 “A knight in shining armour”no less, that made Mr R smile! 😊
DeleteWhilst eating brekkie this morning, I spotted something yellow in front garden. It was not a bit of plastic as thought, but a self-seeded wild yellow poppy - what a lovely surprise and has loads of buds still to bloom.
ReplyDeleteA Welsh poppy, even. Perhaps you brought the seeds back from one of your trips to the Farm Shop.
DeleteTwo days ago I noticed that one had popped up in the beds at the front of the house.
DeleteSuch a delightful surprise.
I love them.
Blew across the Bristol Channel for you, Mrs P.
DeletePossibly Sarnia, but I’ve noticed others along the lane, so think the seeds probably blew from there.
DeleteWherever it’s from I’m grateful to have even one.
They are such a delight.
I had some self seeded in my garden in Stroud too.
That was a long way from Wales!
DeleteNo Sarnia, not far at all.
DeleteWhen visiting walks around Stroud, Wales is just over the Severne valley and can be seen daily. Just a different part of South Wales to my daily views here.
Yes, that much I know because we can see it from Rhoose Point where my son lives. I meant a convoluted flight path for a random seed.
DeleteWhen I had my 70th at Symonds Yat we were more or less equidistant for family in Rhoose and Nailsworth.
Incidentally, sil is now also a widow - Colin died on Wednesday morning, also cancer, which had crept up on him unexpectedly. She got rather more help than I did
Sorry to hear of her loss.
DeleteHas she continued to be more pleasant towards you than before her brothers death ?
Oh, yes. We were all very comfortable at their last visit, to the extent that sometimes I've almost begun to feel like 'big sister'.
DeleteBeing from a larger, spread-out family I've certainly had more idea as to how to go about things, even if I was so often thwarted!
"MayDay" Bank Holiday Sunday has come up trumps. What wonderful and hot sunshine at last, so much so I was able to eat my lunch-time sarnis in the garden.
ReplyDeleteLong may it continue, as garden is still very much work in progress.
It is slowly but surely.
WHAT Miriam! No sun here since late morning dull white cloud and certainly no summer temp 13c high. Sitting here with the heating on low. Glad you have had such a lovely day though and have been able to enjoy an alfresco lunch 👏🏻
ReplyDeleteWhat was your high temp today?
No idea outside, but inside house with no direct sun now at 17.24 is 20.6C.
DeleteMind you oven was on for ages up to 4.00pm (half price Sunday again), but all windows + doors are still wide open..and so it is so calm + still.
The early evening birdsong is really wonderful to hear...
Lovely day here also. High temperature of 19 degrees. Spent the day in the garden emptying and cleaning my winter baskets, pots and troughs ready for planting summer bedding.
DeleteI need to re-varnish my window box (outside my lounge window), ready for planting. It will be a short job, hopefully.
DeleteI am still struggling with getting rid of all the weeds, or should that be Triffids.
The worst problem are the deep-rooted grass clumps, which have grown into the flower beds.
DeleteI can't believe again, how many plants have not survived from last year 😪
Pouring with rain here AGAIN and after lunch I went to sleep!
ReplyDeleteAfter lunch you went to sleep ?
DeleteI have not woken up today !
Was meant to be driving to Cornwall today, but after a poor night - leg cramps four times plus loo breaks - although I managed to get up before 8 I have not really been properly awake all day. I’ve managed to put some clothes on and take Lady to the park ( she had a three hour walk on the moor yesterday ) but I’ve struggled to do such a short walk. Feel as tho’ I have a temperature again and feeling truly rotten.
It was cloudy but very still early and throughout the morning, but could see rain coming up from the south and it was heavy when it arrived but the sun followed it.
I’m hoping for a better night and to be ok tomorrow.
So sorry to hear this, Mrs P - a kick-back from the jab, possibly? I hope tomorrow will be a better day.
DeleteYes, I went back to sleep. I'm still downstairs at 7.20am on a Sunday, although on the one day when I need to be up early there is little incentive: my aeroplanes have a well-earned lie in on Sunday so nobody moves until the 8.30 Guernsey flight. The first one here doesn't come in until after 10am, by which time I'm already at work.
Back into the church for the summer, although no longer at the organ as negotiating all the bits that need attention in order to produce a decent sound has become too much like hard work. As long as I'm prepared to do that people won't believe there's anything wrong with it!
Morning service always knocks me flat, even on piano - it's having to work from outside the sound system, so I can't hear what's going on and have to rely on tone of voice and body language.
I'm usually asleep on Sunday afternoon.
I did have a good nights sleep thank goodness. No leg cramps !
DeleteWill the organ get repaired Sarnia ?
Will the money required be found ?
And can the piano be moved to a better position for you ?
What a lovely day here. Been in the garden most of the day de-pointing a patio ready for re-pointing this coming week. Didn’t get it all done but should finish the prep tomorrow. Much better than doing housework!
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion PtbY - any activity that is not housework….. is better than doing housework !
DeletePleased your feeling improved enough to be out in the garden at last.
Pleased to second that!
DeleteAnd pleased to third that!
DeletePtbY.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds that your latest eye op. was a success. I truly hope so and that it's all now over now. 👍
I needed to dash out to the s/market this morning, as for some reason I had run out of potatoes. I just about managed to find enough for last night's meal (which I then boiled dry listening to last night's TA episodes🤷♀️)!
ReplyDeleteWhat a nightmare - Is this what people do now on a Bank Holiday Monday - go to the supermarket??
One woman was complaining so much, the Manager had to be called.
I am not commenting on the other page as to TA and my differen thoughts! 🤣🥺🙀😂
ReplyDeleteAll I will say is that my evening meal tonight, will be on-time and being eaten before it starts 🫰.
I’ve had a great couple of days, yesterday I drove to Cardiff to see Bruce Springsteen in concert (for the 6th time in 43 years) I was staying with my cousin who I hadn’t seen in years & we stayed up talking til 2.00 am drinking more Prosecco than we should have. We were somewhat late getting up this morning. I then visited my aunt, also a rather overdue meet-up, her health is not good so I was glad to have seen her. Now back home, caught up with the happenings in Ambridge and planning an early night
ReplyDeleteSounds great KP 👍🏻 another memory made!
DeleteI saw Bruce in 1988. Brilliant. He’s fantastic for his age now.
DeleteWhat a nice trip for you.
I had a local community alert yesterday morning, which has also appeared in the local newspaper today.
ReplyDeletePoison Hemlock has been found growing on a path very close to me.
I will certainly be very careful when weeding garden.
Thinking back to last year and the very overgrown garden adjoining my garden, there were a couple of very tall weeds growing in it, which I thought was cow parsley.. I wonder now.
Local Parish Council acted so swiftly putting barricades + notices around this toxic plant.
Perhaps you should alert your parish council of your thoughts about that neglected garden Miriam. There might still be seeds there.
DeleteHemlock looks a bit like cow parsley. Google it, Miriam, just to check if this is what you saw.
DeleteAnd even worse would be hogweed, which also looks like large cow parsley and can inflict lifelong skin burns. Mr A is still suffering from sores on his arms if he goes out in the sun, 30 years after inadvertently strimming a patch of hogweed with no protection. We didn’t know how dangerous it was at the time.
DeleteSarnia Thanks for the suggestion. The alert that was sent had a link to show all about this plant, which I also "googled".
DeleteWhat was in the neighbouring garden is not known, as I couldn't see it clearly, just that it was tall with white flowers. It was all cut down when house was renovated last year.
As so close to this path 🤷♀️
My daughter was once shocked to see on a plant app a picture of hemlock just labelled as a member of the carrot family ( true it is ) and contacted the site to say it should emphasise it was hemlock and could be deadly poisonous.
ReplyDeleteHave just altered my profile picture to show the camellia that has been here before my time, and although the first flowers came out in January it is still smothered in flowers now. I have grown another from a cutting of it. Bella cat is sitting in front of it in the sunshine.
Wow that’s some specimen Janice 👏🏻🤗
DeleteMy wonderful pink standard azalea is magnificent this year also.
DeleteI have taken a photo of it. When trying to put it as my profile picture - it just doesn't work.
Janice, my neighbours camellia has been covered in flowers just like yours for many weeks now. I have a full view of it from my kitchen window.
DeleteEverything in flower seems to have been magnificent this year.
DeleteCould we put it down the endless wet weather ?
I saw Jersey Royal Pots today, but at £3.50/kg..
ReplyDeleteA lovely, warm and sunny day here today. We went up to Lyme where we did my second favourite walk.We haven't done it for ages as it tends to get very boggy and we've had a lot of rain! It was still boggy in patches but nothing our boots couldn't cope with. Once we went up the hill and into the wood it was so silent apart from birdsong and we heard a cuckoo, our first this year. It was just so peaceful, I could have stayed all day.
ReplyDeleteIdyllic.
DeleteWent for my post op check up today. Surgeon was very pleased with results, as am I. Overall they lifted my lower eye lid a quarter of an inch so I have a normal looking eye now. It’s been a long 5 years since my eye problem started but 🤞it’s all over now. What with that and a new hip there’s no holding me back now. 😊
ReplyDeleteThat's very good news 🙂
DeleteGreat News PtbY. 👀
DeleteNow just get going and enjoy.
Slow down, PtbY, you're scaring me! Seriously, it's wonderful news, and such a relief for you
ReplyDeleteI second that pty such uplifting news and so well deserved 👏🏻⭐️
DeleteIs anyone watching the current series of Race Around the World?
ReplyDeleteWe are not enjoying it as much as the series in Canada, or the celebrity one round Europe.
All the far east cities seem very crowded and noisy and although some of the countryside is beautiful. Too much time seems to be spent looking for bus stations!
We find the Mother and daughter who are always squabbling very annoying and we are hoping either the brother and sister or the two young male friends will win.
Yes we are watching this. I’m not enamoured with any of the contestants but watching it for the scenery. These sleeping buses look amazing. I can’t believe that 2 couples have lost the map!!!! For goodness sake. AND the brother leaving his money belt with his passport in, well , just sums up young uns today. My money belt would never leave my body and would be under my T-shirt. Nobody would be pinching anything of mine.
DeleteMy eldest grand niece is 13yrs at the end of the month. Yesterday her "birthday list" was posted for all to peruse. I was gobsmacked.
ReplyDeleteThings asked for:- hoodie/sweat shirts which had to have the xxxx logo on it, named cosmetics or gift cards for similar named items...
Everything has to be of a particular brand!
As much as Iove her, I found this a bit much and dare I say, too expecting.
What did I opt for? - a fluffy dressing gown, which I found half-price on the good old internet.
In my day and even now, a birthday present is purely a nice gesture which as been thought about and then appreciated.
Oh Well - that's a modern day 13yr old, expect + get.
My 12yr old granddaughter doesn't expect and wouldn't get Miriam
DeleteCosmetics? At 13?
DeleteI think I was wearing make up at 13.
DeletePonds !
I had ditched it some time when 14 though.
Fortunately my face flared up with a reaction. The doctor told me it was that muck on my face. I stopped wearing it and have had flawless skin since.
Some years later I did go VERY big on the eye makeup though, real sixties girl me !
My G ch have never asked or had a list for any B’day or C’mas and have always sent a letter of thanks ( although usually some weeks later, I suspect because of mums nagging ! )
I did have a partner who listed everything in life, including B’day and C’mas presents wanted. I found it very disconcerting as I came from a family who would have considered it very bad mannered to ask or expect anything.
I just find it sad as to this expectation and the need for "labels". This comes from both her father and her paternal grandparents.
DeleteI gave her (and her brother) £25 cash at Christmas, but I could see the disappointment in her face.
Talking about birthdays, it was my niece's in OZ yesterday. I posted her card 3 weeks in advance, but it only arrived on the day! Apparently the Australia postal service is far worse than ours.
DeleteI was thrilled though to get a personal message saying Thank-you. Little things mean such a lot.
It is sad Miriam and especially so I think when you understand that it comes from ‘ the other side ‘ of the child’s family.
DeleteFor a number of years I was able to give only £ 25 to each Gchild at C’mas and never gave anything other than a card for B’ days.
In recent years I’ve been in a better financial position and have given them far more and more often and each of them have actually said “ are you sure Nana ? “.
It was very difficult for me since my son in laws parents are pretty well off and have already provided the children with a trust fund.
I feel for you Miriam.
You have both given the most precious gifts over the years your time and love which are far more important and the current reaction of your grandchildren proves that Mrs P
Deleteand hopefully Miriam your niece will realise the same in a few years time!
Did anyone see that aurora borealis last night? It was visible from our close, just amazing!
ReplyDeleteIt was a cloudless night sky here but I could see a sort of cloudiness in the sky towards the north which I think might have been the Aurora. On our cruise to view them a couple of years ago, the same thing happened and only those looking through a camera lens or taking photographs could see the wonderful colours. The weatherman on BBC news this morning said human eyes aren’t strong enough to admit enough light and a camera or other lens is required. There was a photo on the news taken Basingstoke so I assume that’s what I was looking at! Wish I’d had my iPad with me.
DeleteSmall Person in Reading was in the back garden watching them last night. Sent us some lovely photos. Apparently a friend took even better ones which Small Person is going to send on.
DeleteToo much environmental light to see anything here.
I missed it, as didn't know.
DeleteNeice and family who are only 25 miles away, so not too far from Cheshire Cheese (they're Nantwich), went out to a nearby field. The photo's she posted today were amazing.
I am so jealous.
Perhaps tonight if stays clear 🫰🫰
I will look from my north facing back garden, as I don't want to go walking about on my own in the dark..
DeleteLuckily lighting nearby is low and there are tall trees close by which blocks out light (and messes with my TV signal - another issue).
My son sent me photos of last night’s northern lights which he took whilst in North Wales, Lleyn peninsula. He even woke his 6 year old son to experience the sight as it will be another 20 years, apparently, before the phenomena happens again in this part of the world to such an impressive degree. The photos were superb so I was hopeful that I’d get to see them tonight, so far nothing to see.
ReplyDeleteI forgot to look for the lights on Friday, MrNuts looked but couldn’t see much, but he wasn’t looking with his iPhone, last night we both looked (I’ve got an app on my phone) but nothing much visible. Not that upset as we saw some amazing displays when we went on an astronomy cruise up the Norwegian coast a few years back, and I did see a lovely bright shooting star 💫
ReplyDeleteChichester Summer season is underway, last night we went to see “The other Boleyn girl” quite long but moved at a fair lick. Much wider range of ages in the audience which was nice to see, normally Chichester makes me feel young.
ReplyDeleteAm a proud grand Aunty tonight, as the rugby season comes to an end.
ReplyDeleteNiece (soon to be 13yrs) has been chosen as the captain of her team for next season.
Nephew (10yrs) who belongs to a different club, was awarded club Player of the Year today.
They have both so embraced rugby and in a good and positive way.
It is well done to parents also, who are their drivers to venues and matches every Sunday, often in very opposite directions.
Very well done to all Miriam ⭐️⭐️⭐️
DeleteHas the soon to be 13 yr old now redeemed herself following her birthday present request list 🤭
Well done to your niece and nephew Miriam. I remember those days of driving children all over the place to various activities.
ReplyDeleteWe are currently sitting in the conservatory with an almighty storm raging overhead, it's so refreshing after the sultry day that we've had. The garden will be glad of a drink.
Just have had similar and probably the same one.
DeleteIt was a true tropical storm as to it's ferocity and intensity.
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ReplyDeleteWell what a quiet day on both blogs yesterday! Have you all been so busy in your gardens with the recent appearance of the sun and are now worn out 🤭 The sun has disappeared at the moment with rain overnight. Some storms you Cheshire bloggers experienced any resulting damage? (do hope not)
ReplyDeleteI wasn’t busy in our garden (wish I could be!). But we did go to visit a garden open Inas of the Alton Cardiac Rehab facility which Mr H uses.
DeleteI expected it to be a Manor House, or large country house with a big garden, as ‘gardens open’ often are. But this was in a village called Four Marks and turned out to be a modern bungalow at the end of a close of similar bungalows. It was quite small but so colourful with borders of Japanese maples of every colour under the sun, and an amazing variety of foliage. A greenhouse was full of huge succulent plants, again of many colours. Tea and cakes were served to visitors and it was a really lovely afternoon.
Come to the conclusion I quite fancy a nice bungalow in Four Marks!
“in aid”
DeleteVery interesting AP and an unexpected find. Four Marks has certainly grown over the years I remember it without street lights but now has some good facilities and easy access to nearby towns. Was Mr A impressed as to a possible change of address 🤔
DeleteHasn't it got a station on the Watercress line out of Alresford?
DeleteYes, it has, I just checked, Medstead and Four Marks.These days it runs right through to Alton, where there is a main line connection.
DeleteIndeed Sarnia, Arlesford - Medstead/ Four Marks - Alton
DeleteMany events take place throughout the year plus Sunday lunch excursions and Saturday nights Dining Belle, not cheap but an experience.
Does that help to persuade Mr AP that a bungalow in Four Marks would be a good idea, AP?
ReplyDeleteWell, as we were sitting in this very pretty but smallish garden enjoying our tea and Lemon Drizzle I said ‘ wouldn’t it be lovely if we had a garden this size and could look after it properly. And he said ‘ yes it would’!!!!! I didn’t say any more but I think the idea is sinking in and I shall continue with my campaign as he now admits he can’t cope so well these days. How I hate this getting old business!
DeleteWell done AP.
DeleteSilence after his reply was exactly the right response, let it rest there for a while.
In the meantime could you surreptitiously get onto a local estate agents list for a heads up should a bungalow in Four Marks about to come on the market ?
I’m sure many of us would be happy to keep our fingers crossed for you now that seeds have been sown?
Perhaps suggest an Afternoon Tea on the steam train? They have all kinds of trips on offer.
DeleteAnd yes - we all hate this getting old business.
ReplyDeleteBut we need to remember the other side of the coin too.
Old age is not for the fragile or weak willed - So, as we are experiencing this getting old business we need to remember that we are the tough ones for having reached this far.
It certainly has its problems, but I for one wouldn't be young again for anything. I hated all the interference and being denied the same opportunities as others simply because I was me.
ReplyDeleteThat taught me to grab with both hands any openings that came my way, no matter how small and set my own standards irrespective of what other people thought I could or couldn't do.
However, I'm grateful that I didn't have the first idea how long and hard the journey was going to be to get where I am now, or indeed, that I would ever get here at all!
Despite the physical limitations and ongoing complications, I'm freer now than I've been in my life; every now and again that hits me right between the eyes, and it's exhilarating.
Good you’ve sowed the seeds there Archerphile. Get four marks on rightmove and keep an eye on the market. As soon as a suitable bungalow comes on the market go see it. We did that. Mr PtbY didn’t want to move. He could see the pro’s of the move to here but wasn’t bothered. Didn’t want the upheaval or the expense. He doesn’t like change. Now he says it’s the best thing we’ve done.
ReplyDeleteThey need a little shove in the right direction I think.
Thank you everyone for the advice, and don’t worry, I have already searched Right Move, Zoopla and other property finding sites for bungalows in that area!
ReplyDeleteThe main problem is that it seems to be an expensive area, especially for bungalows. It is a very desirable area and suitable for commuting to Southampton and Winchester. Nothing suitable under £500, 000 and £6 -750,000 nearer the mark. I think we shall have to concentrate on north Hampshire for something we could afford. I live in hope!
Fingers crossed, AP.
DeleteGood luck AP !
DeleteFour Marks and nearby might be desirable, but do you want to live in a commuting community.. ?
It might be better to be in north Hampshire in a more settled community.
Alresford is lovely, though probably even more expensive.
DeleteGood Luck AP.
DeleteIt seems the seeds have been sown so keep it going in a subtle way.
Remember last year when I talked about Little Sis moving from Norfolk to Suffolk. They just decided to put their property on the market, sold it (with problems). They went into a rental property short-term as just couldn't find a property which felt right. So much had to go into storage though. They did so many viewings - but as registered with several estate agents, they got a notification of a property just about to come onto the market. They went and saw it -and offered there + then which was accepted.
It is the perfect home for them.
I had a laugh last week as she sent me a video of the bell ringers practicing in the church, which is at the bottom of their garden.
All I can say is - practice might make perfect eventually. 😆🔔
Oh dear 🤣
DeleteHaving been a learner bellringer when young I know exactly the clatter your sister must be experiencing Miriam. Tintagel is a lucky village in that the church is about quarter of a mile away out on the cliffs and the bells are only heard when the wind is blowing in from the sea. Otherwise it is just the seagulls and the jackdaws in the tower who hear it and they don't seem to mind.
DeleteIf your sister finds it really difficult she could ask if muffles could be put on the bells. It is a bit of a hazzle though because someone has to climb up amongst the bells to fit them, and it is quite a skilled thing to do, and then take them off again before services when they want them to sound out clearly. They are expensive to buy and not all towers have them.
They are used when ringing for funerals, and if a church doesn't have muffles they may borrow from somewhere that does have them.
They have probably got several new people learning at the same time. When there is just one learner amongst a team of say 6, the more experienced ringers can do their best to avoid clashing with the out of place bell so it doesn't sound so bad.
DeleteYou are right though practice does make perfect eventually. 🔔🎼🎵🎶🔔
I tried bell ringing when in Putney.
DeleteI was not made to feel welcome by the captain and the towers did not seem to be a happy place.
I lasted only a few weeks.
Some years later I heard that the captain of a very long standing was altogether a very unpopular man, but he had a powerful standing within the church community and every one had to bow to his superiority.
That's a real shame Mrs P. I learnt as a young teenager with a group of friends the same age. Before that there had been no ringers at all for many many years. Then our vicar decided it was daft having bells that were never rung when there were a group of youngsters who could be taught. He located an old ringer who first taught him and a lady who helped with the children's groups, and they then taught us. I think because we were children it was always kept lighthearted and informal, and we had treats and outings as well, and because there was no hierarchy our tower was probably a bit different from most. Later in life we scattered all over the country but we still kept in touch. I don't ring nowadays but still love to hear the bells.
DeleteMy three children were all bell-ringers at the church which is a two minute walk away. My eldest went to Loughborough to see a new bell being cast, and was reported on in the local newspaper. He hasn;t rung bells for many years, but came over last week for a funeral, contacted the tower captain and got to go to the weekly practice. He could hardly move his arms the next day. I hear the practice every Thursday evening, it always reminds me of my younger family and i will miss it.
DeleteWhen I lived in. Malmesbury I would garden on Tuesday evening listening to the practice, and now in Minehead it’s Friday evening. There were no bells rung in Rodborough.
DeleteI’ve been in Cornwall with my daughter for almost a week now.
Helping with the cottages and the horses.
She has asked me to stay longer, and when she has to return to the London house where my SIL is preparing that house for a new tenant.
The prospect is a little daunting !
Mrs. P. Very nice to be asked though! I wonder if you are anywhere near Janice?
DeleteNo I am up in the north of the county Mistral, and can't drive at present. For 2 days and nights last week I was in Truro, but unfortunately in the hospital. Had a second small TIA after a bigger one in March. Not a proper stroke but a mini one, and am absolutely flaked out and resting in bed. Have been told it can take months for the fatigue to lift and energy to come back even after a small one which has cheesed me off as all the weeds are growing in the garden. And it has well and truly dented my pride as I thought I was a healthy person. It is part of the reason i haven't come back to listening to the Archers just yet because it seemed it was going to be miserable, and I need cheerful things at present.
DeleteRe the hospital. I am going to try to work out before the election who is genuinely going to put most into the NHS. I spent the first night until 4am along with other people sitting up in a hard chair ( although fair do's the incredible staff were doing their best and carting me off for tests and head scan etc. Then I progressed to a reclining chair in a bay with curtains. The next day i progressed to join a line of other trolley beds along the wall of the A and E corridor, from where they took me for a MRI. The night was dire, no sleep and none the night before, people covered in blood being rushed through from ambulances and loudspeakers calling for doctors to go to the Resusitaion room. They regularly came to check my blood pressure and it was sky high. No wonder. One lovely nurse was even singing to me as she took it trying to get a liwer reading. And even in the night they came and shone a bright light in your eyes ( necessary I know) and asked questions like Do you know what month is it? And apparently the correct answer is not Yes!
ReplyDeleteI didn't mean to mention this as it is not something cheerful, but it is good to let off steam. A very nice physiotherapist has come to the house to start me off with exercises for my wobbly walking, as there is a waiting list for the local physio department, and the doctor at the stroke clinic i attended after the March one is very good. So now on blinking blood thinners Clopidogrel. My mother used to be on Warfarin, don't know the difference, and deliberately not looking things up on line as it will just scare me!
DeleteI suppose now i will have to be careful not to slip on the wet paths in the garden in case of bleeding. Anyone else on bloodthinners?
P.s. I did get to a ward eventually and my blood pressure came right down again.
DeleteOh, Janice, if I knew the right thing to say, I would say it. But I don't.
DeleteOh Janice, what you have been through is dreadful and unforgivable. Our NHS should not be like this, you should have been able to go straight to a bed, not be stuck in a corridor with more blooded casualties waiting for treatment.
ReplyDeleteWhat has our NHS come to? I’m afraid I dont trust either of the big parties to make much difference, at least not in the short run. I despair, I really do.
I hope you will soon be feeling a bit better but don’t try to rush things. Dont worry about the blood thinner, it is necessary to protect you from more strokes ( my son is on warfarin at the moment for the same reasons but it would be wise not to risk a fall.
Please do let us know how you are progressing and keep in touch.
Janice.
ReplyDeleteWhat an awful experience after a frightening event.
My hospital A+E dept has a side ward with beds in, where patients are put until a ward bed is available. Also there is now a huge new day A+E building, which is where longer needed treatment is done for patients who do not then necessarily need admission. This is aimed to free up the actual A+E depth.
As to the bells, my sister loves hearing them like me, and bell practice doesn't worry her at all.
She just wishes to hear improvement in the near future..
Janice I feel for you and hope that things improve in the not too distant future. Having worked in the NHS for decades it really saddens me to see what is happening to it. I had a meet up with ex work colleagues last week and we were all saying the same thing.
ReplyDeleteOn a more cheerful note, we went to RHS Bridgewater today. A pair of coots have built a nest next to the café's outdoor terrace, upon which were two little chicks. The parents were busy replenishing the nest with vegetation and, at one point, one of them passed a piece to one of the chicks which promptly dropped it. The parent passed it back and the chick managed to put it in place. Such a nice moment in the doom and gloom that is in the world (and TA). I managed to get a video of it.
ReplyDeleteThankfully you must have missed the rain. It is chucking it down here.
DeleteI've had recently fledged blackbirds in garden, with parents very much watching over them.
The noise they make when puss-cat goes out 🙉
Oh Janice, what a dreadful time you’ve had over recent days.
ReplyDeleteI’m sure that along with everyone else I would like to be able to give you some warm words of comfort, but rather like everyone else it is despair at the state of the NHS and what patients like you are put through rather than the all encompassing warmth and compassion of the past.
Do try to let thoughts of your garden and it’s needs be put aside and concentrate on your needs instead.
I think you are very fortunate to have a physio come out to you, and well done that doctor who probably over rode objections to get her to you.
And my thoughts are especially with you as I’m just a few miles down the coast at the moment.
As for the state of the NHS and the general election when it comes, I have no hope at all that any one party of any persuasion can do anything to improve the situation.
ReplyDeleteAll politicians want to do is throw money at the problem and time and again that has proved fruitless.
I was able to see problems building when a young nurse in the late fifties and early sixties, and I’ve watched those problems deteriorate further throughout the decades since.
Last month I read on a local feed that our small hospital in Minehead was changing all the signage of the hospital to reflect a small change in name of one department ( I forget which department )
I despair !
The cost of that change in signage and headed paperwork alone will be thousands if not millions, and for what ? Because some jobsworth has decided that the present name of the department does not reflect the ethos of the hospital ?
I don’t know the answer to my questions but it does make me think of the conditions of hospitals in the current war zones operating quite possibly without any signage at all.
Janice, how horrible for you. I read about what goes on but of course I don't really understand the impact because I haven't experienced it myself.
ReplyDeleteI hope the weather stays warm so that you can enjoy being outside, it's still lovely to be outdoors if you can ignore the jobs. I often spend so much time messing about that I forget to sit and enjoy it.
Hope the physio goes well, take care.
New thread open , look for the cute coot
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